I sent out my STD magnets right before Christmas in my Christmas cards. Now, I got a Christmas card back from an older couple (that my parents had me invite) and they wrote a note inside saying that I have to invite their daughters to the wedding so this way they can drive them there since they don't drive anymore Okay, 1 daughter I can understand... but 2?? I don't even know these people!!!
04Bride
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All i can say is people have nerve!!! I totally agree one maybe but why two? Especially if you dont know them why would two people (daughters) want to go to a starngers wedding.
You'll have to put your foot down and allow one( if you even want that) and just explain you cant afford or dont want these extra people there!! Good luck. i hope i didnt sound nasty but its true its your day and i have had to put my foot down even to my own parents!
Good Luck!
juju
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Then they shouldn't go! People have some nerve!! I know what you are going through though.
I invited my friend's parents and if in case they don't make it, they wanted someone to take their place. Actually, it is an old friend from College. But, If I wanted to invite him, I would of sent him an invitation!!!!! Some nerve. I just gave them a look. Hopefully, they got the hint. Then I have a friend who is traveling from out of state and she is bringing her brother with her. Her brother's friends are coming to NY. I hope she doesn't think the brother's friend are invited to the wedding. She kinda hints but I ignore it. I don't think she realizes how expensive NY weddings can be. As it is, my fmil invited way too many people. We invited way over the capacity allowed at Fox HOllow. I am so annoyed by all this. But, I'm trying not to stress too much about it.
Jenny5150
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That's rude! If they can't get there on their own, then they should just decline to attend when your invites go out.
butterfly20
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thats rude.. .i agree they should just decline to go then.. you can always tell them that your on a budget and cant invite extras.
Misstene
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Have they ever heard of car service??? I cannot believe these people!!! They ought to be ashamed. Have their daughter(s) DROP THEM OFF... they don't have to stay!!!!!!!!
July2004Bride
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Thanks guys... I knew you would understand
Jen_n_Dale
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RUDE!
Janine24
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VeRy RuDe...........
Boop2704
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How rude!! Ok, so they have a choice, they can either not come, get a car service or try and get a ride with someone else. But I would not invite their daughters just so they could come. That is so rude!!!