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AwaitingAugust Posted:

VENT!

i'm getting really frustrated trying to please everyone ...

i am kind of a tree-hugger so i don't want to print one menu per person (plus, i'm poor lol) ... so i told my mom i would do 2 menus per table and she said that 5 or 6 per table is ok, but no less! so that's annoyance number 1.

annoyance number 2 is with my BMs. one of them hasn't even bought the dress i told her to buy yet which is very annoying since it's not specifically a BM dress and i told her to buy it quickly so that it doesn't become out of stock ... and my other BM is so unbelievably cheap that i want to hit her ... anyway, that sort of worked out since the dress didn't look nice on my OOT BM ... so whatever.

so then third annoyance: i was saying how i saw another dress that was $160 (but $200 for my MOH since she needs a larger size because of her chest) ... i said how $160 is still kind of a lot ... i was hoping her repsonse would be 'that's ok, i would understand $160' .... but she didn't .... so i was annoyed that i'm having SUCH a hard time finding nice dresses that aren't expensive, and she isn't even helping. Also, she's SOOO artistic and when i was asking for menu design ideas, she didn't offer to help make it ...

it's SOOO time for me to put my foot down and kick some *** .... uch!

sorry this was so long ... thanks for 'listening', girls
MrsList Posted:

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You don't have to have menus at all if you want to save money. I didn't have them at mine and have never been to a wedding where there were menus and people are able to figure out what they want just fine.

AngnShaun Posted:

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one thing to keep in mind... you dont have to please anyone but yourself

Future Mrs P Posted:

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Absolutely only try to pelase yourself. We went to a wedding over the summer that had 1 menu per table in a frame and everyone passed it around. But I know some girls who didnt have any and it worked out totally fine.

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

one thing to keep in mind... you dont have to please anyone but yourself



haha, easier said than done

maybe no menus is the best way to go ... i just figured it'd be good since we will be having 5 menu options and don't want to confuse people.
AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust


Posted by AngnShaun

one thing to keep in mind... you dont have to please anyone but yourself



haha, easier said than done

maybe no menus is the best way to go ... i just figured it'd be good since we will be having 5 menu options and don't want to confuse people.



does your RH provide menus? ours does...
KerriJohnS Posted:

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UGH anything having to do with the BP and OTHER people is the MOST annoying part of wedding planning.

If you don't want to print that many menu's then don't do it. Do what YOU want to do. If she doesn't like it then just don't tell her about it.
silyss Posted:

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Crest Hollow has printed menus already. I'm sure WCC does also...

Bee12 Posted:

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Posted by silyss

Crest Hollow has printed menus already. I'm sure WCC does also...



this may be a great alternative

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