Vent!!!!!

elp6421 Posted: Sep 11, 2010 02:53 PM

Vent!!!!!

I am just so sick of all the drama that surrounds my wedding!!! Now, one of my bridesmaid has decided she is not going to my b-part. No real reason.

Urgh.. why are the people who should make the wedding a nice experience making it worse????

Spring143 Posted: Sep 11, 2010 03:25 PM

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oh no. sorry .

elp6421 Posted: Sep 11, 2010 04:02 PM

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So i confronted her and she says 'she didn't know'

DaniandKen2010 Posted: Sep 11, 2010 04:29 PM

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People suck!!

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Sep 11, 2010 04:36 PM

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Special K Posted: Sep 11, 2010 05:24 PM

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quirkybride Posted: Sep 11, 2010 05:42 PM

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Sorry she's acting that way, that's lame. If she has a problem with you and your relationship is important to her she should tell you whatever is bothering her, but not just drop out.

bluj786 Posted: Sep 11, 2010 05:47 PM

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saralee1978 Posted: Sep 11, 2010 07:46 PM

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Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Sep 11, 2010 09:40 PM

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my sisterinlaw (of 20+ years) told me she's not going because... 'its not her scene'
um, excuse me if i'm wrong.. but since when is MY wedding about YOU?

i'm just to the point where i don't care anymore... do i want her there, yes... am i going to miss her, yes.
am i going to have an amazing time anyway? HELL YES!

it sucks thought. sorry.

canmigs Posted: Sep 12, 2010 08:20 AM

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bigday1114 Posted: Sep 12, 2010 09:21 AM

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im sorry our BM is not coming to your bachellorette party. I am hoping she has a good reason. I actually did not go to my friend's bachelorette party when i was a BM a few years back. I felt horrible about it but I just couldnt afford the $450 per person required for the event. I told her and she understood.

What are you doing for your b-party?

elp6421 Posted: Sep 12, 2010 09:23 AM

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Posted by bigday1114

im sorry our BM is not coming to your bachellorette party. I am hoping she has a good reason. I actually did not go to my friend's bachelorette party when i was a BM a few years back. I felt horrible about it but I just couldnt afford the $450 per person required for the event. I told her and she understood.

What are you doing for your b-party?

I am flying to my girls, since I am in Florida now. We are getting a limo and going out to the bars. Nothing fancy!!

hamptonsbride2010 Posted: Sep 12, 2010 09:31 AM

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weddings = drama of all kinds

You will have a blast with or without her

jhines4684 Posted: Sep 12, 2010 09:39 AM

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yea, weddings bring out the worst in people and it really sucks.

Kerrys_Princess Posted: Sep 12, 2010 09:40 AM

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Posted by elp6421

Posted by bigday1114

im sorry our BM is not coming to your bachellorette party. I am hoping she has a good reason. I actually did not go to my friend's bachelorette party when i was a BM a few years back. I felt horrible about it but I just couldnt afford the $450 per person required for the event. I told her and she understood.

What are you doing for your b-party?

I am flying to my girls, since I am in Florida now. We are getting a limo and going out to the bars. Nothing fancy!!

Not everyone is comfortable doing something like this. I don't enjoy going to bars and the last 2 times that someone managed to get me to go, I actually passed out within the first 30 minutes of going. My friend got married 2 years ago and wanted everyone to go out drinking for her b-party and I declined and explained that I am not comfortable in bars and as much as she said I would be missed, she understood.