Vent...

Ok so I know everyone has family drama and we all need to vent. My FH and his brother unfortunately are not very close for more reasons then I could ever explain (valid reasons). To make a very long story short he and his wife are always the victim and never do wrong! My FH chose his cousin (who btw they are very close and are more life brothers). FBIL now says (after being engaged for for over a yr) that he is hurt by not being the best man and also hurt that his wife is not involved in the wedding as well.

I am not in the slightest bit close to her, I am not friends with....I have a huge guard up against her becuase she is very fake and she has hurt too many people I love dearly in the FIL family.

I feel guilty like I should talk to her and get to know her but I have been fighting with myself for even having those thoughts but yet mad at them for making me feel this way...not sure what to do :(

Sorry for the long story!

girl there is ALWAYS going to be someone that has something to say about YOUR wedding. If they are that petty to make this about them then you dont need to waste another thought on them. You seem like a great person so I understand that you feel bad, but think to yourself....what would they do if they were in your shoes. No stress girl!!! This is going to be one of the most amazing days of your life....dont let ANYONE get in the way of that :)

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Posted by ColliMac23

My Dad has told me: Your going to piss people off no matter what so it might as well be the way you want it

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ITA!

i have family members who are cold with me now because i didnt ask their kids to be in my wedding...ummm i dont want little kids except my fg's and rb and thats it so its my wedding so suck it up and get over it