Vent

I love my aunt dearly but she really needs to mind her own business. I spoke with her last night about my plans for work this upcoming school year (I'm a teacher) and I told her that I was going to give up my class room and sub for my school district. The reason for this is because I will hopefully be moving to PA before the wedding. She proceeds to tell me that the plan I have is not any good and that I should just wait til the end of the school year to be married and then move. REALLY?! ***. I have a part time job that will cover the pay difference and to get a classroom down there I need to switch over certifications and get my name out there any way I can which would be subbing. I don't just want to up and move without some sort of sure income down there because there is loans I have to pay off from school and wedding bills and every day expenses. So I am in the process of trying to get it all taken care of. But really what is the point then of getting married it would just be the same thing I am doing now... LONG DISTANCE WITH MAYBE SEEING FH ONCE A MONTH!!!

Sorry for the vent. It's just frustrating and she doesn't seem my long term plan she just thinks I want to be in PA so I can be with FH. Which yes is what I want but I have a game plan that is for long term.