VENT: A MAJOR TRIAL 1 WEEK AFTER OUR WEDDING

Kate In Love Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:21 PM

VENT: A MAJOR TRIAL 1 WEEK AFTER OUR WEDDING

My sister had been hospitalized because of an eating disorder. This has taken a toll so much between me & my husband. Why instead of going into a honeymoon... we were in the hospital? He understood the situation later on.... but that also meant I cannot get pregnant yet (you can't be stressed out while pregnant). She's still in the hospital now & is very resistant to treatment. I am worried about her that I frequently stare blankly into an empty space. My husband worried about me... so I tried so hard to cheer up.

As she suffers... I am suffering too. My poor sister.

Please pray for her.

MrsSx2 Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:22 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear that!!!

flibbertigibbet Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:25 PM

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Oh my. Prayers for you and DH and your sister and whole fam.

tmcnair414 Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:29 PM

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joctorre Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:34 PM

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I feel so bad for you and DH and your sister. You obviously need some time to just kind of 'veg' about all of this.

I'm so sorry. Are you able to visit her? Or is this harder????

Prayers for your family.............

lela7378 Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:43 PM

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LuvMyHunk Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:56 PM

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best of luck ed recovery can be long... is she in a hospital or treatment center????

lillisa Posted: Jun 02, 2010 11:58 PM

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SummerBride10 Posted: Jun 03, 2010 06:26 AM

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Wow I'm so sorry your familys going through this.

SoontobeGallagher Posted: Jun 03, 2010 06:27 AM

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miamimerger Posted: Jun 03, 2010 06:44 AM

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we just we through something similar with my own sister. we didn't have to cancel our honeymoon (luckily), but it's definitely very upsetting and stressful. As someone that's been in your shoes (in some capacity), the best thing I've done for HER was just listen--it's obvious why she's in the hospital, and when she's ready to talk about it, she'll open up. However, the best thing I've done for ME was doing a stress-relieving activity. I'm a writer, so I started writing more, taking my dog out on longer walks, and talking about it to my husband when I needed to. Let me know if you need anything!