(Vent ahead)...I hope...

my wedding is as beautiful as everyone's on here...

I had such a nightmare about my wedding and everything was WRONG. Dress, music, ceremony, RH, linens, etc were all wrong. I've been planning for +2 years and in 35 days it'll all be over, yet I have no clue what I'm planning in regards to decor, music etc.. I want to be different but I feel like I'm just going along because I don't know what I really want on my big day... In my head, right now as I write this, I'm all over the place with the planning... I'm afraid my wedding with be a '-ding' or an '-ng' despite all the work I'm trying to put in. I see everyone's pictures and I'm in absolute AWE at how beautiful everything is and I look at me and doubt that I'll even attain what you girls have reached...

I need to get out of this funk and back to the happiness but I can't seem to figure out how...

Sorry to vent but I just needed to express this to anyone who cares to listen...

I get like that sometimes to! There was a thread on here the other day 'any vendors you wanted but couldn't have?' It made me feel so much better. Sometimes it can feel like everyone else is doing so much more then you. You don't realized they don't have something that you do.

Your wedding will be amazing and beautiful. It's about you and FH becoming a family and the celebration the surrounds it.

Take a deep breath, give a FH a hug and kiss and just step away from the wedding. Even if it's just for tonight. Go to dinner and make a 'no talking about wedding' rule.

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Posted by BlushandBashful

Your wedding will be amazing, I promise!! Don't second guess yourself! What makes you see other peoples wedding and think yours won't be as great? It will be!!

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this!!!! Definitely don't second guess yourself, just enjoy your day!!!

Its alot of planning and second guessing yourself, and stress! Of course you are nervous its only natural, Im 3 months away and have nightmares all the time of things going wrong. Your wedding will be great, just remember its the people there , your family and friends who will make it memorable and fun. I don't know about you but my friends/family could have fun anywhere, just need good music and alcohol