For 2 of my BM's, I put their dress on my David's Bridal charge card and told them to just make payments, that there was no interest until Jan. One BM gave me $100 and just said to me the other day, so sorry I forgot, I will get the other $25 to you. She has been no problems. I keep asking the other BM for some pymt, even $25/month. I offered to give her my acct number, so she could make a direct pymt. This is FBIL's girlfriend. We had to go there Sat to drop something off. She was asleep. She emailed me and said, oh I wish that 'FBIL' would have woken me, I had money to give you. I emailed back that 'FBIL' was meeting up with FH tonight for the tuxes and just to give it to him. Well, FH just came home and said that 'FBIL' said that BM said that she gave me $60 at my shower a few weeks back I think I would have remembered that. I just had surgery days prior and no pocketbook with me and FH was with me, neither of us remember this and were is the money... Is she trying to take advantage of the fact that I was sick? What do I do? I am so mad. I left a sort of nasty message on her cell basically telling her I think I would have remembered this. I am half tempted to tell her not to bother being a BM, pay for the dress and tell her she is out.
agraydc
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sorry to hear that
wundmoretime
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sorry to hear that
thanks
MKEA98
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I think you handled it well. You called her and left the message basically calling her out. I say wait to see what she says in response to your message. Hopefully she'll stop playing games and just give you the money. But if she continues to insist she gave you this money and turns it into a big deal, then you might need to kick her out.
wundmoretime
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Posted by MKEA98
I think you handled it well. You called her and left the message basically calling her out. I say wait to see what she says in response to your message. Hopefully she'll stop playing games and just give you the money. But if she continues to insist she gave you this money and turns it into a big deal, then you might need to kick her out.
It has been this and other issues too. She hasn't called me back yet. She was suppose to make choc favors for the shower and come early to help. she did neither. my MOH -sister is very pregnant with twins and I don't blame her for not wanting to do anything for a bachelorette party. This BM said she was going to handle it, set a date for 9/13 and never asked me for contact phone numbers. what is she waiting for It seems that the problems keeping adding up with her, to the point my FH is fed up with her too.
jennarose023
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people suck...sorry
wundmoretime
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people suck...sorry
I am really starting to feel that way. I didn't think I would have BM drama, especially because we are older, but this one BM just keeps piling on the BS that is becoming hard to believe anything she says. She also said that she was going to watch my daughter at the hotel for our wedding night. I found out from FBIL that she never booked a room and they are all sold out now-so how are you doing that ? She was the difficult one to get the dress and book a fitting too, problem after problem.
