VENT- bridesmaids

I know how you feel, I had a BM who was not very responsive to things. But eventually she started to become more active with the whole thing.

I would say, don't say anything because it will just create more problems that I'm sure you will not want to deal with.

I understand how you feel. But I would let your sister handle it.
I only have a MOH and two BM's. My MOH and one BM have been great! I know from my mom they are always getting together and doing things for my shower. They can't get my third friend to cooperate at all. In fact that BM told me last week how she had to turn down a date to go to my shower! ( My shower is this Sunday) At first I thought she was kidding, but she wasn't. I said, 'really, a date on a Sunday afternoon?' and BM says yes. I told her she didn't have to come to my shower if it was an inconvenience and her response was,'well, I already bought a gift, so I have to come' Seriously! Who says that?! Even if it was true that she turned down a date to attend my shower( again she is a bridesmaid) why would you say that to me!? You really learn who your real friends are, once you go through the whole wedding process. I know so many girls on here have similar stories. I'm at the point right now that I just want my shower to be over and done with.