Vent: FH is making me violent

Vent: FH is making me violent

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sorry mine in perfect!






























i'm sooo kidding lol i told him he was the one that stressed me this entire process!

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Mine is FAR from perfect...he get's all flustered and bothered when I ask him to do anything wedding related...he's like why?? and my answer is because it isn't going to do itself.

This Sunday we have to go to chruch and meet with the minister. He's been giving me crap about it since I made the appt. It's one Sunday...s u c k it up!

UGH

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Where do I begin?

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Mine is giving me a hard time about taking a limo to the hall, leaving the after party at a decent hour so we can ENJOY our wedding night (you would think this would be a no brainer ......) and about cutting the cake.

These issues are resolve now, but earlier in the process he gave me stress about having any kind of ceremony and about having PEOPLE THERE (he's afraid he will faint from nerves, just standing in front of people) and just about everything. Hell, I made a sign for the bathroom baskets that said 'Provided by Mr. and Mrs. Booth' and he was like, 'oh no, get that off there, no need to write that'

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funny I should read these. I asked FH to wrap the MOH gift-well he asked me to help tape it with him and when I said I would do it myself, he grabbed the gift, unwrapped it, yelled at me and went and did it again himself. Now he is not talking to me. We have been fighting all week. He was suppose to print the programs to bring to the hall tonight-not done yet. Also, he just had his weekend, he was suppose to get a picture blown up. We had to go on lunch today. Should I go on? He has been good when I am with him though.

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I asked my FH 9 months ago (approximately 2 weeks after we got engaged) you write a small paragraph in memory of his deceased grandparents. I mentioned it about once a month since then.

He did it today and said i was 'pressuring him!'

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my FH is a police officer, i asked him for a draft of his guest list and he told me hes busy at work so he cant. meanwhile ill call him at work to ask him what hes doing and his response 'in the break room watching tv' .....lol..lol..i told him fine dont make a list and when save the dates go out your family and friends wont get one...needless to say i had the list that weekend ...I find they just dont have the same sense of urgency to get as much as you can out the way that we do.

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It's so funny you posted this... I feel your pain.. It's after 3am and guess what I am doing????

MAKING A LIST FOR MY DJ!!!

My FH is the biggest procrastinator in the WORLD!!

BTW: My wedding is Sunday!



P.S. I'll do some drop kicking with ya!

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i feel your pain

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I asked mine as well until I finally got fed up and one night I turned the tv off sat him at the dining room table, brought over the lap top and gave him no choice but to pick songs with me! He did it and after I was like that wasn't so bad right!!! Unfortunately you have to drag them kicking and screaming!

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Ummmmmmmm I feel your pain! I'd like to dropkick my FH too!
... and I do tell him that ALL the time!!!!

Everytime I ask him to help me with something wedding related.. this is his response...
'I am really stressed trying to get the house ready in time for the wedding. Let's make the house my priority and the wedding yours!' Ooooh I am SO sorry that HE is stressed! It's just a walk in the park for me!

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thanks... I thought I was the only one! My FH doesn't do ANYTHING and then after I make the decisions, he wants to change EVERYTHING.

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Ha my FH is avoiding the same task as yours, and I've been asking him to do it for monthsssssss.
His mom told me yesterday that he is complaining to her that all the wedding stuff from the past two weeks is really stressing him out... well now he knows how I've felt over the last entire YEAR, while he has done nothing. Now all the sudden I ask him to take care of a few things, and it is too much for him!!!!
Boys are unbelievable!!!

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Posted by futuremrsfab

I give FH one thing to do & he acts like he is too busy!
I have been asking him since August to give me a list of songs for the DJ & here we are 1 month till the wedding & has he done it- NOOOOO and when I ask him why? ooohh well he's busy at work today- well idiot maybe you should have started it a freaking month ago

I really really want to drop kick him right now! just to see the look on his face

misery loves company- anyone else annoyed with their fh? & if yours is perfect, I may need to drop kick you too if you feel the need to post here lol

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no, no, no. They're all like this. It's a GUY thing, I think. Even tho I consider my FH pretty close to being a perfect fiance, friend, and husband-to-be, he also does this nonsense of not doing what he's asked (when pertaining to the wedding at least). Not so long ago, I also needed him to figure out some music stuff, but the only way I finally got it done was by sitting down WITH him and doing it TOGETHER Same with the invitations, centerpieces, color scheme, etc.

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God, I don't even know where to begin... Whether it's him hemming and hawing about typing up names for the escort cards 'It's SOOOO hard.'
Deal with it.. Get over it and start typing.

His new thing is he doesn't want to get his hair cut. Umm, get it cut.. I know you're a surfer who walks around barefoot most of the time but please, please at least shave those fuzzies off the back of your neck.

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FH and I go through this cycle everytime i ask him to do something.....
i ask once...
i remind him once
then twice....
then i get mad and we agrue for a min...
then we sit down and do it together...
and he says...'oh thats all i had to do? that wasnt bad'
then i
and say 'no sh1t!!!!'
but then we are all

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oh ladies- today I hate him more than yesterday- so he emails me a list of 5 songs- yes thats right 5 songs- it took all that time for 5 songs. and I had asked for a couple salsa, a couple bacchata, and some current & there is 5 salsa songs.

its a good thing that my bachelorette party is tomorrow & I wont see him till sunday otherwise I could not be held responsible for my actions lol