Vent: FH is making me violent

Original post by futuremrsfab

Sep 11, 2008 03:01 PM

I give FH one thing to do & he acts like he is too busy!
I have been asking him since August to give me a list of songs for the DJ & here we are 1 month till the wedding & has he done it- NOOOOO and when I ask him why? ooohh well he's busy at work today- well idiot maybe you should have started it a freaking month ago

I really really want to drop kick him right now! just to see the look on his face

misery loves company- anyone else annoyed with their fh? & if yours is perfect, I may need to drop kick you too if you feel the need to post here lol

AllyDrew1108 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 03:31 PM

Re: Vent: FH is making me violent

Mine really wants nothing to do with any wedding stuff. I'm actually OK with this.

He has agreed to take a few dance lessons, it was his idea. He has no suggestions for music - so I stopped asking him.

I had to DRAG him kicking and screaming to the tux place...

I gave up asking him what he is getting as groomsmen gifts - I refuse to get involved. Let him forget, not my problem. Ha ha!

lyss0908 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 04:18 PM

Re: Vent: FH is making me violent

OMG I am dying! Thought i was the only one! If FH complains one more time that he feels like he is a guest and is just told to show up I am gonna freak out. God- I almost wish I had the problems some of you ladies have with FH not responding to doing things for the wedding. Mine complains he has no say! (which is only partially true)

wundmoretime Posted: Sep 12, 2008 11:11 PM

Re: Vent: FH is making me violent

Posted by RockysGirl

Posted by futuremrsfab

I give FH one thing to do & he acts like he is too busy!
I have been asking him since August to give me a list of songs for the DJ & here we are 1 month till the wedding & has he done it- NOOOOO and when I ask him why? ooohh well he's busy at work today- well idiot maybe you should have started it a freaking month ago

I really really want to drop kick him right now! just to see the look on his face

misery loves company- anyone else annoyed with their fh? & if yours is perfect, I may need to drop kick you too if you feel the need to post here lol

no, no, no. They're all like this. It's a GUY thing, I think. Even tho I consider my FH pretty close to being a perfect fiance, friend, and husband-to-be, he also does this nonsense of not doing what he's asked (when pertaining to the wedding at least). Not so long ago, I also needed him to figure out some music stuff, but the only way I finally got it done was by sitting down WITH him and doing it TOGETHER Same with the invitations, centerpieces, color scheme, etc.

I played music for FH's dance with his mother and had him pick one. It took over an hour an a lot of patience-we got it though. I asked him many times before, but I guess I needed to hold his hand through it.