Vent fil and Bm ruined tasting
So listen to this ish! My fmil has been completely uncooperative through this entire process. Every time I tried to involve her and my ffil it blew up in my face. First it was going dress shopping she was coming then she wasn't then she was but she was upset others were too and she wasn't given enough notice. Then it was my confirmation, which I made because we're getting married in a Catholic Church. She was coming then she wasn't because she didn't get a formal invite from me. I invite her and my mother decided that since she was coming she'd cook and do something after all because my future in-laws were coming but fmil decided last minute that she had 'too much to do to come back for food', which is something she's done numerous times to my parents (backed out of the invite before) she REFUSES TO HELP WITH ANY PART OF THE WEDDING because supposedly they're strapped but threw a catered affair for FH's nephew. And have 'gone away' on numerous weekend trips AND remodeled their deck.
So when the tasting came up it was originally for 6 people. But since the sets of parents weren't getting along fh and I decided to make it my mother his mother and the best man and maid of honor so it could be drama free and enjoyable. Well my mother had major dental surgery and can't eat so my father was going to go. Fmil refused to go without her husband. Because fh and I had already made a decision about who was invited and who wasn't and yet again she was being difficult we said were just going to go by ourselves. We ended up bringing my father, sister, brother, and friend of the groom to try and salvage the night and enjoy ourselves. WELL THAT DIDNT WORK!
Our banquet manager knows fh parents from church and earlier in the week fmil called and asked that the reservation was only for two. Our Bm told her it was for six AND THEN CALLED FMIL LAST NIGHT TO TELL HER WHO WAS THERE!!!!!!!! Wait it gets better!
Right before we were to try our cake our Bm asked to speak to fh. The b**** pulled him away from the table and chastised him for not bringing his parents! I walked away from the table and found him standing in the hallway talking to this woman! I lost it!!!! WE signed the contract!!! WE are the ones paying you!!!! WE are the bride and groom!!! Who do you think you are?!?
She kept saying his mother is her friend. I told her it was a family matter and she should stay out of it!! I also said that no matter how close you think you are you're not even invited! Seriously ruined the evening for fh who was upset to begin with. I can't believe some people and they're nosy ways!!!! Stay out of it and do your job where's your professionalism?!?!? B****!!!!!
End rant.
So when the tasting came up it was originally for 6 people. But since the sets of parents weren't getting along fh and I decided to make it my mother his mother and the best man and maid of honor so it could be drama free and enjoyable. Well my mother had major dental surgery and can't eat so my father was going to go. Fmil refused to go without her husband. Because fh and I had already made a decision about who was invited and who wasn't and yet again she was being difficult we said were just going to go by ourselves. We ended up bringing my father, sister, brother, and friend of the groom to try and salvage the night and enjoy ourselves. WELL THAT DIDNT WORK!
Our banquet manager knows fh parents from church and earlier in the week fmil called and asked that the reservation was only for two. Our Bm told her it was for six AND THEN CALLED FMIL LAST NIGHT TO TELL HER WHO WAS THERE!!!!!!!! Wait it gets better!
Right before we were to try our cake our Bm asked to speak to fh. The b**** pulled him away from the table and chastised him for not bringing his parents! I walked away from the table and found him standing in the hallway talking to this woman! I lost it!!!! WE signed the contract!!! WE are the ones paying you!!!! WE are the bride and groom!!! Who do you think you are?!?
She kept saying his mother is her friend. I told her it was a family matter and she should stay out of it!! I also said that no matter how close you think you are you're not even invited! Seriously ruined the evening for fh who was upset to begin with. I can't believe some people and they're nosy ways!!!! Stay out of it and do your job where's your professionalism?!?!? B****!!!!!
End rant.
