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vent: going to be long

michellecarin Posted:

vent: going to be long

So my wedding is in Hawaii which pissed my mom off to start. Its not really a destination wedding b/c FH grew up there and his entire family lives there. Well my mom's family is not comning to the wedding (except for a cousin who is in the BP), and its not all for financial reasons. This has really upset my mom b/c she wishes that her family could be there. She keeps making excuses for them which I ignore. I feel that if they really wanted to be there they would go. My dad's family is going, almost every single one of them. Well my mom is paying for her mother to fly there and for her hotel. My mother and father have decided to join my fathers entire family on a mini trip to Maui. Here's where it gets tricky. Nobody will help my mom get my grandma back to NY and shes going to be 84. Even my cousin is being a PIA (shes a BM). I don't know what to do b/c now my mom is flipping on me and complaining that she could have paid for my entire wedding (if I chose to have it in NY) for the price its costing her to get my parents there along with grandma. It's getting me really upset. i am going to call my cousin and give her hell. I already had to ask ilovebriani if she would be willing to help out with my gram. I want to freaking kill some people right now

Sorry girls just had to vent
ttweety7 Posted:

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im sorry :(
bella1028 Posted:

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oh I am sorry...definitelt give your cousin a call and see if she can offer help after all....may e that will help in the end

michellecarin Posted:

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i plan on doing that when i calm down a bit if I call her now I will just get angry. She's a bit clueless with things. My mom has called her already and tried to get help

anamaree77 Posted:

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People can be so frustrating!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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I'm sorry

michellecarin Posted:

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i just hate how my family slings guilt. It freaking *****. I have enough to do with planning the damn wedding I should not have to be everyones personal travel agents as well

kimandvin Posted:

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AWWW SORRY

lwny427 Posted:

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I hope your cousin the BM has a change of heart and sees that you really need her help.

Who wouldn't love a reason to go on a trip to Hawaii? Sorry that things aren't running smoothly.

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