I tell you, some people just don't understand. The 2 Jr. BMs and 1 FG are sisters, their mother has gotten me on my last nerve regarding the money. HER children begged and begged to be in this wedding, and are all excited, and she can't all of a sudden come up w/the money for their dresses. I've done everything I can to make things inexpensive, sayign they could even buy their shoes at Payless, ordering dresses from Netbride (prices are 130,130, and 96)
Yes, then no, then yes, then no, this whole freakin roller coaster as to whether they are in the wedding or not. By the way, she is LOADED.
One of the girls even got fitted already for her dress
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Now, all of a sudden, it's back to 'well maybe I'll just put ONE of the girls in. . . ' but this was AFTER all the girls know they are in the wedding, they are so darn excited to be in 'Auntie Lizzie's wedding'.
Finally I call the mother, over and over again, she never returns my calls. So I reached her this morning, and ended it once and for all, I said NONE of the girls will be in the wedding, and that's my final word. UGH why the heck do I have to go through all of this?????????
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I am so ****ed, I had the worst weekend, stress all the way, my BP calling me about the bridal shower, like why should I be involved in this, I had to call my Matron screaming and yelling that if one more BM calls me about the bridal shower, I am eloping.
Worst thing, is they are asking me if they could have the bridal shower the WEEKEND BEFORE my wedding, Memorial Day weekend, WTF???? I have enough crap to do that weekend, and they want to have a shower?????? I was so p-d off, I was like NO WAY, too much to do, then the whole process of them explaining why. . and so on and so on...... I was like I never do this to them for their wedding.... UGH
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So thank GOD for my Matron, who made several phone calls to the BP and told them they are not under any circumstances to call me about the bridal shower. She also told them they are NOT having the bridal shower that weekend, (she'll be in Hawaii anyway) and my sister piped in she will be way too busy that weekend also. I tell you, I'm ready to strangle someone.
Poor Len, all he could do all weekend was watch me curse people out on the phone and scream out loud for nothing (I consider that great therapy) and try to hold me in my Bridezilla moments.
But it's over, for NOW, I hope.......
Sorry, I had to vent. .. .
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