VENT--I'm sure most of you will understand

OK, I know you guys will understand that I am not being a total &itch. I am getting really annoyed with everyone around me. If I sat around and waited for people to do things, NOTHNG would get done.

My mom always tells people 'Stephie is planning the whole wedding on her own, she doesn't let anyone help her.'

YEAH, because when I DO ask for help people are either too busy or start helping and bail on me right in the middle. AND THEN people make referrences to me being a bridezilla...NO I am just doing what I have to do because if I didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. If they want me to be a bridezilla, I could

And I'm not talking about 'extra' things, I'm talking things that need to be done like the place cards and favors and stuff.

AAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHH



OK vent over. Thanks for listening.

honestly, I have learned that if I don't do it myself if won't get done how I want it anyway, so I am just doing it alone, but I totally understand.

Ugh! So with you on that one!
My problem was I asked my MOH to do one thing for me. Now she's very artistic and does great things. She 'volunteered' herself to do something for me. It was completely NOT what we talked about! Approx 1 week before my wedding I had to add what she was suppose to do to MY list!

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Posted by 103005FallBride

Ugh! So with you on that one!
My problem was I asked my MOH to do one thing for me. Now she's very artistic and does great things. She 'volunteered' herself to do something for me. It was completely NOT what we talked about! Approx 1 week before my wedding I had to add what she was suppose to do to MY list!

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arrgggghhh...It seems that I am the only one who has a list of things to do. Everyone elses list got transfered onto mine and nobody seems to care.

ETA: Thank you SweetPea for the hugs

I totally understand what you are going through. Hang in there for a couple more weeks!

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Posted by Pmpkn087

OK, I know you guys will understand that I am not being a total &itch. I am getting really annoyed with everyone around me. If I sat around and waited for people to do things, NOTHNG would get done.

My mom always tells people 'Stephie is planning the whole wedding on her own, she doesn't let anyone help her.'

YEAH, because when I DO ask for help people are either too busy or start helping and bail on me right in the middle. AND THEN people make referrences to me being a bridezilla...NO I am just doing what I have to do because if I didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. If they want me to be a bridezilla, I could

And I'm not talking about 'extra' things, I'm talking things that need to be done like the place cards and favors and stuff.

AAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHH



OK vent over. Thanks for listening.

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I completely understand! I've been having some of those problems myself. After awhile I just gave up and do them myself. It's not worth the aggravation.

I know, but you're almost there. Enjoy the last few days !!! Make sure that you and FH take a moment the day of the wedding are look around the room and realize that all the people there are there for you two and to share your special day.

Good Luck,
Kelly

I can relate, none of my BM's have been there for me since day one...two out of six of them showed up to my bachelorette party so I feel your pain