Vent-Kinda Long Sorry!!!

Sorry girls but I don't do this often but I just need to vent!! I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown today all I feel like doing today is crying (which I have done already this morning when I got up, in the shower, while doing my hair & in the car on my way to work) I am just so stressed out!!! We are getting married in 25 days plus we are supposed to be moving but that has been nothing but stress, long story short we are selling our coop and buying my parents house but our coop board is making things so difficult to get the guy buying our place his interview so he can move in and he wants to close by next week!!! Our lawyer is supposed to be getting us an answer today about wether its going to happen next week but if it doesn't then we can't close till after the wedding & HM so it wouldn't be until the middle of march & I know the guys buying the place is not going to be happy!!! I just feel like between all this stress plus the rest of the wedding planning, we stiill haven't done favors, got a marriage liscense, bought all the BM/GM, and I'm sure a ton more things I am really going to have a nervous breakdown. Also I feel like I'm going to snap at someone today at work and I feel bad cause it's not anybody at works fault!!!

Thanks for listening I really just needed to get that out!!!!

you seem very overwhelemed right now you have alot going on.

Take a deep breath. One thing at a time. Let the lawyer handle th co-op (im so sorry that s u cks)

and make plans...one day go shopping, next 2 days favors, etc. one day at a time and dont forget to take a breath! itll happen!

Ill come over and help you!

please vent if you have to and never appologize!

Ok!!! Breathe, you cant controll the Co-op board! It $ucks that they are giving you such a hard time.

I can give good hugs!

it is always good to vent and let it out- I am experiencing something similar to you right now I am terribly sorry and I know it is really tough and overwhelming right now but overall it will work out it is just the drawn out process that is getting to you- again I am sorry and really hope things start working out for you

I agree you need to take one thing at a time..AS for the coop there is nothing you can do about it...Let the lawyer handle it....

You concern on you and if you want to cry let a good one out...You will feel better after....I Know I do....

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Posted by madseason

you seem very overwhelemed right now you have alot going on.

Take a deep breath. One thing at a time. Let the lawyer handle th co-op (im so sorry that s u cks)

and make plans...one day go shopping, next 2 days favors, etc. one day at a time and dont forget to take a breath! itll happen!

Ill come over and help you!

please vent if you have to and never appologize!

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Thanks for offering to help!! I feel like sometimes I just need some help and even though my mom offers it I don't feel like I get it enough from everyone else in my wedding!!

u have fm

WOW- that's a lot on your plate for the month...
As for the co-op boars- stay on top of them! If you have to keep calling- do so. And, explain your situation clearly & deadline for moving out.
As for your parents- can you commit to a date (the ideal one you want) so they can make their arrangements & take that stress off you. You may have to pay your co-op & new mortgage for your parents house, but might be worth it to eliminate the stress & be in by when you want to be in...
As for the wedding stuff... Just list out EVERYTHING you have to do and put aside time to just do it. Seems like what you have left to do are quick things- just need to make some decisions and do it....

& hope things improve & come together as the week goes on!!!!

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Posted by minibride08

WOW- that's a lot on your plate for the month...
As for the co-op boars- stay on top of them! If you have to keep calling- do so. And, explain your situation clearly & deadline for moving out.
As for your parents- can you commit to a date (the ideal one you want) so they can make their arrangements & take that stress off you. You may have to pay your co-op & new mortgage for your parents house, but might be worth it to eliminate the stress & be in by when you want to be in...
As for the wedding stuff... Just list out EVERYTHING you have to do and put aside time to just do it. Seems like what you have left to do are quick things- just need to make some decisions and do it....

& hope things improve & come together as the week goes on!!!!

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Thanks we have been staying on top of the board but what it is is that they changed property managment companies and there having a debate on which one should be doing it..so there petty behavior is putting us in the middle. Unfortunatly we can't close on my parents house until we close on ours cause we need the money from it. I am trying really hard to take it one step at a time but I just feel so overwhelmed today!!

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Posted by LeeLee111

I know how you feel, I've been having my daily cry more then daily lately. When all is said and done all that matters is you're marrying someone you love. Everything else should take a back seat.

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I know that and I feel like everything will come together but why does it have to be so difficult!!!!