vent (kinda longish)

i cant freakin stand it when ppl put in their own opinions of what I should do for MY wedding....

for example, i was out the other night with my FH when one of his friends asked about the limo situation. i told him that we're prob going to have like 17 ppl in the bridal party so we're going to need an 18-20 person limo. why does he have to wince and be like, 'ooohhh u dont wanna do that. that's crazy! that's too big! u should just cut out some ppl. have ur sisters and no friends. ppl would understand.'

steam was going to come out of my freakin ears ladies. i hear crap like this all the time! even from my FMIL (she's the one that said i shouldnt put in my best friend of 24 years because she lives upstate and it would be a 'burden' on her to have to drive down here to be in my wedding...)

i dont get it, if someone tells ME something about their wedding that i wouldnt necessarily do for my wedding, im polite about it! i dont tell them what they should do or that their idea is crazy! unless they ask my opinioin i guess. i just think ppl are rude.

sorry so long! what do u girls think? anyone else having this problem?