My sister sends me a text this morning after I drove her dress into the bronx (and said I will pay for alterations after paying half of her dress) that her boyfriend is coming to the wedding. Her boyfriend of a week. I told her 'no' I am not paying for anymore people we have met our minimum and he wasnt invited originally and they have only been dating a week. If she wants to pay then he can come to reception. She says if he cant go then she is not coming.
Mind you I have helped pay this girl rent and food and payments on her couch with my brother last year so she could get her act together. This is part of the reason I am not shelling out anymore money for this 24 year old brat.
She says she will pay but then she is getting her monies worth and she will be in pics with him and she will be walking up the aisle with him and she will be entering the reception with him. Is she kidding me. she says she will give him her plate so she doesnt have to pay. I nicely and calming explained thats not how it works and she insist they wont count.
It seems to be to big of an issue for her I told her to save her money and not come. I am three weeks from my wedding and this is the crap I have to deal with.
****sorry so long vent over
jgold910
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Re: VENT: My sister is a f-ing biotch
Posted by smilesjc81
honestly - a brat ... any brat ... act the way they do because they know if they make a big enough fuss they will get what they want
If you give in to her tantrum over this, you are just enabling her to continue this way of demanding her wants and needs.
I would seriously KNOCK out any of my 6 sisters for trying something like this.
I am SOOOOO sorry you are going through this, and for the money you have wasted on her. But I would stand my ground if I were you.
Getting thrown out of your BP should show her that you are DONE and OVER her and her selfish ways
giving in to this demand... well it's only gonna validate her means of getting things. Next time it's your baby shower, christening, vow renewals, Christmas get together, or anniversary party that is in jeopardy of her manipulation.
JMHO
I totally feel this way Maria - I am so sorry you have to go thru this! You know we'll kick her butt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
