WHY IS EVERYONE SOOOOOO SELFISH ! I just dont get it.
My Bridal PArty is the biggest obsitcal!!! 2 girls still havent picked up their dresses my wedding is in 17 days. One girl picked it up a week and a half ago and its HUGE on HER and they dont know if it can be altered! ***! BTW the dresses arrived in April. If they got it when the dress arrived then there wouldnt be an issue. Alot of my girls are having similiar issues.
NOW one of my BM's just tells me she wont be attending my rehersal dinner ( she didnt come to my bachelorette party either) and uses school as an excuse. I missed my FIRST day of gradschool for my FSIL wedding 3 years ago. I am pretty sure your teacher will understand!
On top of that my AUNT just got diagnosed with cancer. ( her birthday is on my wedding date) and now we dont know if she will be able to make it.
I just dont understand WHY my girls need to give me added stress when I have ENOUGHHHHHHH on my plate. Only like two girls ever ask if I need help. I am so done witht his wedding. I cant wait till its just FH and I on our honeymoon
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I'm so sorry you're going through so much stress. I'm afraid mine will be the same thing. I'm stretching out my budget and buying my BM gowns entirely, so there's no bitching and moaning. And I will accompany everyone to their fittings too.
I told FH to be ready to open a can of whoop *** if I need a heavy to get stuff done.
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Awww Things will work out... I know everyone will get it together. As for your aunt, maybe it's a good thing that way she can anticipate her birthday...
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You're so close, your Aunt will totally be able to make it. Weddings tend to give people a lot to fight for and hang onto.
It's frustrating that your friends are doing this to you, and unfortunately it really makes you realize a lot of things. But at the end of the day you're going to be walking towards FH and not another thing in the world is going to matter except the two of you. It'll be AMAZING!
And you're totally having Elvis, so I'm hella jealous! It's gonna rock!
Thanks so much ! It truley makes you realize. And the sad thing is some of them are family !
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I totally would have went with them to go do their fittings but they wouldnt give me an answer when they wanted to go. its like pulling teeth with them !~
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Sorry you have to deal with this!!
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Amen to all of that!!!!! White sand and clear waters!!!
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I'm sorry about your aunt. I feel like weddings really bring out people's true colors. You end up learning who is there for you and who is not. I keep telling myself that payback is a b****. Lol...that's how I get through these bridesmaid moments
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Thanks girls! Its just so annoying. It really is so true you learn who is truley there and happy for you. Just trying to keep my blinders on and move foward only looking towards FH
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I know what you're going through girl. I just got in a huge argument with my cousin about how she's been so selfish because I just couldn't take it anymore. Just keep reminding yourself its YOUR DAY and its almost here!!!!! Don't let them ruin your happiness!
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Thanks girls! Its just so annoying. It really is so true you learn who is truley there and happy for you. Just trying to keep my blinders on and move foward only looking towards FH
I am happy to say I am a good bridesmaid!! I picked up my dress in April, going to get my altered dress in 1 hour and willl help u in the next two weeks with anything you need. Love you cousins
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DM, I am so sorry to hear about your aunt's diagnosis. Don't let the girls get you down!! Those who want to be there for your important day will be. Did the girls get their dresses yet?
