VENT... Sorry long...FILs and their BABY!!!

Original post by May05Bride

May 25, 2005 10:21 AM

FH has a nephew who is only 15 months old. I didn't want any kids in the 'ceremony'. No kids walking down the isle because I just don't want the babies to start crying and ruin the 'mood' of a spiritual wedding and have everyone lauph at them cry. So, Through out I made it clear that I didn't want him as a ring boy or walk down the isle.

This sunday, they tell me how they are walking with him down the eisle. They just ASSUMED he is walking and bought him a tux and all - without even asking.

Now let me mention how the baby is not a calm quiet baby by any means!!!! He is a very 'free willed' baby!

I really didn't want him to walk down. And, when FH called and told them that, WHAT A MESS OCCURED!!!!! His sister - the babies mother - said she is not coming to the wedding and how can we not allow this precious BABY walk down the isle!!!!

I am just so upset! We told them they can have him walk - its one day and too close for me to stress over it - but I hate that! He is going to cry and ruin it all! What kinda of parents PUSH their baby on someone!!!! if someone doesn't want them walking down the isle why would you force it!?!?!?!?!

I am just so sad about all this

stacy&joe Posted: May 26, 2005 06:12 PM

Re: VENT... Sorry long...FILs and their BABY!!!

Posted by LFitzy79

Posted by brooklynbridezilla

Wow.... YOu guys are nice- I would have told her that I'm sorry she and her family will not be attending.

me too! Try not be upset, they were out of line for assuming he would walk down the aisle, and for there attitude. It's your day, your way, don't forget that.

You know, I can't stand that people just assume that everyone else will love thier children, or think that it's 'precious'. I know a lot of people (some of them are related to me) that didn't have a single child at there wedding, and have since called to ask if they could bring there children along with them to family parties. It's really rude.

I was just thinking that. That kind of attitude bothers me so much - I swear, if and when I have kids, I would just NEVER do that.