Annoyed with my bp. First they knew since Sept what dress I wanted them to order and ended up not ordering it so it got discontinued. Second they knew since I got engaged december 09 that I wanted to go to vegas this spring break for my bachelor party. Now one of them is like that's when I always go to see my in laws not to mention same individual is. Going to her bil wedding in her husband home state next week and they will be there for a week and a half. Then she's like my husband comes first and why can't we go another time meanwhile all the other bp people are therapist and in school so spring break was the agreed upon working time. I wouldn't care so much accept she's the one I am closest too and now that it is time to book the details she's flaking. My other bms complain because one of them is tryong to organize events like the bridal shower and bp and lives out of state so she needs to put in vacation time and no one is getting back to her since December. Why agree to be in someone's wedding if you are not going to be able to communicate with each other and bride and do the things that need to be done. I decided to hir a doc and my mom was like why speend extra money and I had ro admit because my bridal party is not trustworthy and need someone who will be on top of things. I even sent an email of what I was working on and what they need to work on no one bothered to email back. I am I wrong for feeling like they should be more cooperative. Is it wrong to let go of them because I am feeling stressed and I don't think I should be. The dresses I chose are only $100 and $15 more for alterations. The shoes I am leaning toward are only 30 bucks. I feel I have been beyond reasonable in there expenses and they are still complaining. What to do with this situation. Thanks for listening vent over.
SimHawk8
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Sorry so long I was more annoyed than I thought.
bubblichik
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I am sorry things are not working out :(
TheEyesOfMarch
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Posted by bubblichikA
I am sorry things are not working out :(
Aww, i'm sorry. I can relate to the BM dress. I picked out my dress and it might be getting discontnued so hopefully all my girls try on and order on Friday. I'm not picking another dress!
Good luck
SoonToBeMrsCali
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do what makes you feel right... if u will feel less stress, then drop them... that could mean a loss of a friendship too...
hope you figure it out...
Kiki22
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aww I'm sorry things are going unplanned. Don't worry it will all work out in the end!
SimHawk8
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aww I'm sorry things are going unplanned. Don't worry it will all work out in the end!
I hope so.
LoveyDovey
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girls s*ck!!!!!
my bridal party stresses me out too!
im sorry youre dealing with this
adelz
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:I'm sorry you're going through the stress :( That stinks! Are you really close to any of them specifically? Maybe sit them down and nicely tell them how you feel?
