Does anyone else feel stressed about money? My fiance keeps thinking money will come from somewhere to help or even pay for this wedding.........i Just showed him my budget calculator and he thinks I over estimate and we will be fine... I don't know if I should yell or cry because I'm the only one thinking of this constantly. I told him next week we going to continue discussing this because I think if I don't mention it weekly he thinks it goes away!
Thanks for listening, this should be fun since we start precana in two weeks!
mrs2012
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i stress about this every day. we've been saving up for about 2.5 years for this. thankfully we've cut alot of corners where we could and thankfully, we'll be ok. hopefully we can still do this when we buy a house too.
kdkaboom38
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Yes I keep telling myself that if we can do it now we can do it then. I was able to get a great deal on my dress.
Bride2Be78
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It's a daily stress for me too. My FH thinks is the same. I'm wondering where all this money is going to come from. Ughhhhh
JuneBug86
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My FH was like this the first time too when I showed him my budget/estimate of the cost, at first he didn't believe it but when we started meeting and booking vendors he finally got it. It's always good to start planning early that way you can save, my FH and I cut out dining out every weekend to save and whatever extra we have always goes to the wedding fund...Happy to say that our wedding is 90% paid off and we did it ourselves...so don't stress it is something that can be done
Kristin31613
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went through this yesterday with FH. He's worried about shuttles. I was like try asking dad to pay for the RD and not about shuttles. It's so hard to stay under budget!
pjt212301
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This is a continued stress for me throughout the planning process - I have no idea how it happened but it happened and truthfully, everything did work out in the end.
CaughtMyFish
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It's stressful until the day of the wedding... literally. You have a few months left but if you REALLY think you will come up short, you need to have that realistic convo now. There is no money tree, and trust me, I have researched! lol
