I am starting to get so upset! I have read so many posts in the past that said 'Will anyone say no!' I wish I were one of those people! It isn't my side of the family (at least not yet) that are saying no it is my FH's side. And we haven't even gotten 1 no because of Memorial Day travel. Like some people don't want to travel from Boston or PA. Ok fine. (My FH's parents have lived in so many states so he has a lot of OOTers).
But get this....Yesterday we get a no from his AUNT! . It is his mothers sister and best friend. They are very close. Better yet they wrote the reason why they can't attend. They are both teachers at a private school and they have graduation for there kids on Memorial day weekend! Seriously! You are going to miss your nephews wedding, which only happens once in a lifetime (hopefully) so that you can watch other kids graduate which you take part in every year! UH. Not to mention FH's brother got married on memorial day weekend and they were there. I am so upset. My FH is a little upset too but I think he is trying to hide it because he knows it will really set me off.
We have about 12 no's (for a total of 24 people) on his side and 2 on mine! I want yeses!
I am going to start sending them back to the people saying 'Sorry, but we don't accept your no. We look forward to seeing you on May 29th!'
o17range
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Re: Vent...Will anyone respond yes?
Any luck with more yeses? I can completely understand your dissappointment! I'd be upset as well with their excuses. You mentioned your fmil will be upset as well...do you think she could call her brother and see if they might be able to get a sub for the graduation? Use teacher aides instead of teachers or something like that? I'm sure its required of their jobs, but you only get married once! Good Luck and get ready for all the YES responses to flood your mailbox!
