FH and I had an appointment with a florist tonight. I was showing him pictures of flowers and centerpieces I like. He was very shocked and said I had high end taste and he needed to know my budget so he knows if it's even possible. I told him I didn't want to give it to him and he pretty much said he had to know it. So I told him the fairly generous flower budget because I decided at that point I wasn't going to use him anyway. I get so frustrated when people jump to conculsions that either 1. I can't afford something or 2. expect the world but expect to pay little. I walked out of there so freaking aggravated. And of course he came in with a number $500 over my budget.
I hope my meeting with the next florist is better. I LOVE flowers and consider this one of my most important purchases and I feel like sh!t over it right now.
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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride
FH and I had an appointment with a florist tonight. I was showing him pictures of flowers and centerpieces I like. He was very shocked and said I had high end taste and he needed to know my budget so he knows if it's even possible. I told him I didn't want to give it to him and he pretty much said he had to know it. So I told him the fairly generous flower budget because I decided at that point I wasn't going to use him anyway. I get so frustrated when people jump to conculsions that either 1. I can't afford something or 2. expect the world but expect to pay little. I walked out of there so freaking aggravated. And of course he came in with a number $500 over my budget.
I hope my meeting with the next florist is better. I LOVE flowers and consider this one of my most important purchases and I feel like sh!t over it right now.
these people are so stupid...do they realizr how much money/business they are losing???
sorry he was a jerk
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OMG The nerve of that guy. If I was you I would have said thank you for your time and left. Try not to let that person discourage you and make you upset. I'm sure there is a florist who can give you the look your looking for.
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Sorry he made you feel bad...he's an idiot. That's the one thing I hate about being a bride...is that feeling of constant negotiation...and then you get a guy like this and he just adds to that feelings. Thankfully there are many florist and he can kiss yous $$ bye-bye.
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FH and I had an appointment with a florist tonight. I was showing him pictures of flowers and centerpieces I like. He was very shocked and said I had high end taste and he needed to know my budget so he knows if it's even possible. I told him I didn't want to give it to him and he pretty much said he had to know it. So I told him the fairly generous flower budget because I decided at that point I wasn't going to use him anyway. I get so frustrated when people jump to conculsions that either 1. I can't afford something or 2. expect the world but expect to pay little. I walked out of there so freaking aggravated. And of course he came in with a number $500 over my budget.
I hope my meeting with the next florist is better. I LOVE flowers and consider this one of my most important purchases and I feel like sh!t over it right now.
I am so sorry. There is nothing worse that a rude vendor. They are a waste of valuable time.
If you don't mind fm me the place. I want to be sure I avoid. I have one place I like that I will probably stick with but I wanted to check one other place to be sure but don't want it to be that place.
I am soo annoyed for you that *****
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Keep checking around don't loose hope!
2007 Crescent Bride
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OMG The nerve of that guy. If I was you I would have said thank you for your time and left. Try not to let that person discourage you and make you upset. I'm sure there is a florist who can give you the look your looking for.
I normally would have left but I was getting names of flowers to tell other florists. HAHAHA
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Wow that was rude. Most vendors will take your ideas and budget into consideration, make suggestions to alter things appropriately to suit YOUR needs. Even after what he said, if he came in w/in your budget I would not have given him my business.
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i went to a florist today too and he asked my budget, I just said I want everything for the best price he can give me. Then he pressured me for a number and I just said 'Honestly, I am telling each florist I go to exactly what I want, and whoever gives me the best price is the one I am going to go with.' I knew if i gave him a number that he would 'miraculously' come just slightly over bc thats what they always do.
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that is nasty, i had the same thing wiht a photographer some of them are so rude....did u try designs by rose?? she does great work and will work with ur budget
2007 Crescent Bride
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i went to a florist today too and he asked my budget, I just said I want everything for the best price he can give me. Then he pressured me for a number and I just said 'Honestly, I am telling each florist I go to exactly what I want, and whoever gives me the best price is the one I am going to go with.' I knew if i gave him a number that he would 'miraculously' come just slightly over bc thats what they always do.
Oh I know. But it really didn't matter because I knew I wasn't using him plus it just confirmed my opinion of him when he went over the budget.
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Posted by FtrMrsV
OMG The nerve of that guy. If I was you I would have said thank you for your time and left. Try not to let that person discourage you and make you upset. I'm sure there is a florist who can give you the look your looking for.
I normally would have left but I was getting names of flowers to tell other florists. HAHAHA
nice!! now you know exactly what to tell the florist you book with. sorry he was a jerk! who are you meeting with next?
2007 Crescent Bride
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that is nasty, i had the same thing wiht a photographer some of them are so rude....did u try designs by rose?? she does great work and will work with ur budget
I only tried the one place so far. I have an appointment with Bayview next week. I really liked the woman over the phone. I am keeping my fingers crossed.
Celest
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i went to a florist today too and he asked my budget, I just said I want everything for the best price he can give me. Then he pressured me for a number and I just said 'Honestly, I am telling each florist I go to exactly what I want, and whoever gives me the best price is the one I am going to go with.' I knew if i gave him a number that he would 'miraculously' come just slightly over bc thats what they always do.
I tell them I have no money & that is my budget
2007 Crescent Bride
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Posted by babieblueeyez96
i went to a florist today too and he asked my budget, I just said I want everything for the best price he can give me. Then he pressured me for a number and I just said 'Honestly, I am telling each florist I go to exactly what I want, and whoever gives me the best price is the one I am going to go with.' I knew if i gave him a number that he would 'miraculously' come just slightly over bc thats what they always do.
I tell them I have no money & that is my budget
That's funny.
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Hmmm...I won't mention any names, but I think I went to the same florist and they are a vendor on this site. The guy told me that the flowers I liked did not 'match' and they looked like funeral arrangements to him. He also asked about our budget and laughed when I told him it was $1,500. He said I could barely get anything for that price.
He was a real jerk to us and I was practically in tears when I left there. This is a high end florist and I have to say I hated their ideas and their prices were sky high for the very terrible ideas they presented to me. I ended up finding a mom and pop type store that had amazing ideas and was totally within my budget. Do not go to someone who treats you that way. Shame on them!!!!!!!!!!!!
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How disappointing!!! Better luck next time!
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Hmmm...I won't mention any names, but I think I went to the same florist and they are a vendor on this site. The guy told me that the flowers I liked did not 'match' and they looked like funeral arrangements to him. He also asked about our budget and laughed when I told him it was $1,500. He said I could barely get anything for that price.
He was a real jerk to us and I was practically in tears when I left there. This is a high end florist and I have to say I hated their ideas and their prices were sky high for the very terrible ideas they presented to me. I ended up finding a mom and pop type store that had amazing ideas and was totally within my budget. Do not go to someone who treats you that way. Shame on them!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is HORRIBLE!!!!!!! These people should be used boycotted and maybe that will teach them a lesson. They don't understand what power LIW has!!! One little post and their rep is down the sh!tter
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Oh wow he was real jerk .... I went to florist today also, to flower barn and i tald them that my budget is 1000 and he did work with me and i came out happy and i booked him....i got so many things and he was very nice to me ....