I know this is prob nonsense but a couple months ago when the bridesmaids come over they all tried on the dress and we all agreed to go with silver shoes. Then yesterday the one bridesmaid sent me a text she said that the silver would probably look bad. I dont know because we all agreed that silver would look good and I alreay told everyone to get silver so then I started asking people what they thouht and everyone was like 'whatever you want but I thought you told us to get silver' I thought that the silver would look good with it butnow I am very upset cause I don't want it to look bad
MikesBride2B
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I think silver would look great with the dresses!
Ray8183
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Silver
GR2010
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People can be so damned difficult. I read this post and then I saw your post with the earrings... although I think silver shoes would go just fine the earrings made me think that maybe a copper-ish color shoe would go as well... but if the majority of your girls bought their shoes already just make the one complainer get silver. It's not her wedding so it doesn't matter if she thinks it goes or not.
People can be so damned difficult. I read this post and then I saw your post with the earrings... although I think silver shoes would go just fine the earrings made me think that maybe a copper-ish color shoe would go as well... but if the majority of your girls bought their shoes already just make the one complainer get silver. It's not her wedding so it doesn't matter if she thinks it goes or not.
this is why now I don't know what earrings to get?? Its gonna be all messed up now? Should I just go with something thats a rhinestone instead???
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Something with a rhinestone might look nicer with the silver shoes. If you go with the other earrings, I think I would get copper shoes. Both would look very pretty--you just have to see which one you like better
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People can be so damned difficult. I read this post and then I saw your post with the earrings... although I think silver shoes would go just fine the earrings made me think that maybe a copper-ish color shoe would go as well... but if the majority of your girls bought their shoes already just make the one complainer get silver. It's not her wedding so it doesn't matter if she thinks it goes or not.
this is why now I don't know what earrings to get?? Its gonna be all messed up now? Should I just go with something thats a rhinestone instead???
I thought those earrings were very pretty!!!! And they are silver too... I don't think it is going to be messed up looking at all. Don't let one person's complaint make you question your decision. I think think silver shoes will look good, the other color was just a suggestion in case you decided you didn't want silver. I think those earrings will look good no matter what color shoes you decide to go with!!!
ETA: Are the tops of those earrings silver or gold? I'm going blind....
People can be so damned difficult. I read this post and then I saw your post with the earrings... although I think silver shoes would go just fine the earrings made me think that maybe a copper-ish color shoe would go as well... but if the majority of your girls bought their shoes already just make the one complainer get silver. It's not her wedding so it doesn't matter if she thinks it goes or not.
this is why now I don't know what earrings to get?? Its gonna be all messed up now? Should I just go with something thats a rhinestone instead???
I thought those earrings were very pretty!!!! And they are silver too... I don't think it is going to be messed up looking at all. Don't let one person's complaint make you question your decision. I think think silver shoes will look good, the other color was just a suggestion in case you decided you didn't want silver. I think those earrings will look good no matter what color shoes you decide to go with!!!
ETA: Are the tops of those earrings silver or gold? I'm going blind....
they were silver; I'm trying to find a simple cubic zirconias but I simply cant afford to spend over $30 bucks on earring for each girls, these other ones were only 12 dollars...
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People can be so damned difficult. I read this post and then I saw your post with the earrings... although I think silver shoes would go just fine the earrings made me think that maybe a copper-ish color shoe would go as well... but if the majority of your girls bought their shoes already just make the one complainer get silver. It's not her wedding so it doesn't matter if she thinks it goes or not.
this is why now I don't know what earrings to get?? Its gonna be all messed up now? Should I just go with something thats a rhinestone instead???
I thought those earrings were very pretty!!!! And they are silver too... I don't think it is going to be messed up looking at all. Don't let one person's complaint make you question your decision. I think think silver shoes will look good, the other color was just a suggestion in case you decided you didn't want silver. I think those earrings will look good no matter what color shoes you decide to go with!!!
ETA: Are the tops of those earrings silver or gold? I'm going blind....
they were silver; I'm trying to find a simple cubic zirconias but I simply cant afford to spend over $30 bucks on earring for each girls, these other ones were only 12 dollars...
If you can't find something you like in CZ then go with the ones you posted. I think since the tops are silver and the bead matches the dress it will tie the dress and the silver shoes in together!
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People can be so damned difficult. I read this post and then I saw your post with the earrings... although I think silver shoes would go just fine the earrings made me think that maybe a copper-ish color shoe would go as well... but if the majority of your girls bought their shoes already just make the one complainer get silver. It's not her wedding so it doesn't matter if she thinks it goes or not.
this is why now I don't know what earrings to get?? Its gonna be all messed up now? Should I just go with something thats a rhinestone instead???
I thought those earrings were very pretty!!!! And they are silver too... I don't think it is going to be messed up looking at all. Don't let one person's complaint make you question your decision. I think think silver shoes will look good, the other color was just a suggestion in case you decided you didn't want silver. I think those earrings will look good no matter what color shoes you decide to go with!!!
ETA: Are the tops of those earrings silver or gold? I'm going blind....
they were silver; I'm trying to find a simple cubic zirconias but I simply cant afford to spend over $30 bucks on earring for each girls, these other ones were only 12 dollars...
If you can't find something you like in CZ then go with the ones you posted. I think since the tops are silver and the bead matches the dress it will tie the dress and the silver shoes in together!
I agree! I didn't realize the tops of the earrings were silver. In that case, I think it would match.
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I think silver shoes would look just fine with those dresses. And you can definitely get away with those earrings with silver shoes, because the earrings have a silver undertone. Stacey, do what YOU want.......not what your BM says.
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i have bm dresses that are veeeeeeryyyyyyyy similar in color and my girls are going to wear silver shoes too.
what other colors did they have in mind?? i think black would be wayy toooo dark and itd look bad.......
i have bm dresses that are veeeeeeryyyyyyyy similar in color and my girls are going to wear silver shoes too.
what other colors did they have in mind?? i think black would be wayy toooo dark and itd look bad.......
No she was thinking brown or a bronzey color def not black!
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silver is safe!!!!!!!!!! Stick with it!
KerriJohnS
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im sure silver will look jsut fine.
dont second guess the little things.
do you have tea length dresses or shorter? if not then it really doesn't matter... no one will notice the BM shoes! ESP if they are floor length dresses. Its more important that the shoes are comfortable. A BM in pain walking looks far worse than bad shoes.
I think you should go with your instinct and don't second guess your decisions and choices as you get closer to your date. Its very easy to do this... and almost everyone does. But remember you picked what you picked for a reason... stick with it and trust yourself.
