video question

hello. my brother inlaw is taking care of our video as part of my sister and their family's wedding gift to us. he runs a studio that is contracted by low budget photographers to do videos. i knew that my video would not be exactly what i wanted, but that we would be saving some money (though we still have to pay the shooter $350! this guy shoots videos on the weedend and works at sears during the week ). so i called him to go over details, and i informed him that i do not want the big blaring light shining on the dance floor when people dance (he had this when he shot my brothers wedding in april, and i didnt like it at all!) but he said that he cant shoot with out it because it would be too dark.

my question is do all videographers shoot with a bright light on the dance floor? or just this guy bc his camera is older? i am nervous, too, that he amd his light might get in the way of our photographer.
i remember at my brothers wedding that the light lit up the whole dance floor, you couldnt even see the dj lights. grr.
~lacey

honestly, yes he will probably need those big lights because he sounds amateur and doesn't use the latest in video technology.

I don't know what to tell ya-I wouldn't want that at my wedding.

I believe videographers need some lighting, however they use smaller, less obtrusive lighting now.