video/photo

i know i already posted this on 2008 brides but i need some general help so here it goes:

this week i am starting to book appt with both video a nd photographer...i know i want the deluxe packages with video before church full church full reception and pictures added in of growing up and maybe honeymoon and raw footage...
for photos i want unlimited photos of before at church after church at different sites and the full reception i have a list of all important shots i need i definitly want a huge book for myself 2 parents books and some large prints for myself and obviously all the proofs and negatives (i think you get these after 5 years)
and i want an engagement picture (for my std magnants)

what are typical pricing for what i am requesting?
what are packages that other brides getting?