Visiting Vendors -alone or with someone

Visiting Vendors -alone or with someone

So have you been visiting vendors by yourself or do you bring your mom/ fh/ someone else with you? I'm only asking because my FH is out of the country for the next couple of months and my parents were just on vacation for the past week leaving me to myself and I didn't accomplish ANYTHING!!! I didn't set up any appointments or go visit any vendors to get prices. I just feel like I need someone else there with me to bounce off any questions I may have or to relieve the stress of the salesperson. Is that crazy?

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I've been bringing FH to all the vendor meetings.

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every vendor i visited i brought some or all of the following: my mom, my dad, my sister, and FH.

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Not crazy... I usually do the research to start off then my FH (or ex-BM when she was around) would join me....

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I always visit vendors with FH. His entirely involved in every detail. At the end of the day is us two paying for everything.

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I usually bring a crowd with me (everyone seems to want to be a part of it) It's usually me, my FH, my mother and father (They're paying) I'm very indecisive, so it really helps having people there to help

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FH came with me to everything, except florist which he doesn't care about. For that my mom came with me.

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I've been going with FH to all vendors and my mom and FH for Flowers and RH

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why dont you bring one of your bms just for moral support

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Whenever I went to a vendor it was either with FH or my mom.

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not crazy at all! I only went to see one vendor alone...the rest I went with FH or my mom...once I even took my brother and aunt. lol

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I took my mom to the florist appointments but I did go to a videographer appointment alone. Maybe you can bring a bmaid???

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I either brought FH, my MOH's, or my mom...FH is in sales so he's a MUCH better negotiator

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FH comes to all the vendors with me.

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Fh has been with me for most of the appointments. If he couldn't make it my moh came with me! I like having another person with me to help ask questions and make me feel comfortable!

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i bring my Dad with me everytime

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i do basic legwork on my own as far as research and calling but when ifinally decide to make a visit I usually bring FH. I went to BYC w my bm because he said he doesnt want to look t a million halls, just let him know what the top 3 are and we will go together

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