Hi everybody. I have been a member for sometime due the fact that my SIL encouraged me to read stories before I got engaged. I love the advice and sometimes I feel like everyone knows everyone. It is soooo great! Anyway, I finally got engaged to the most wonderful man, but he wants to take the slow road and I want to plan, plan, plan. I think the problem is that we both agreed to 'enjoy being engaged' and then put the pedal to the metal. It has been 2mths and people are asking 'Why aren't you setting the date?' and 'When are you getting married?' I am fine with it, until my mom and brother wonder why? I explain to them about what my FH and I have discussed but I tend to become persuaded to set the date quicker because justifing 'why' tends to get annoying. Did any of you go through this? It is so fustrating.