WARNING! VENT! FH is at his 1st ever Bachelor Party

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 15, 2007 08:03 PM

WARNING! VENT! FH is at his 1st ever Bachelor Party

So I'm feeling a lil lonely and a bit anxious... I set down the 'rules' before he left (There is no touching of a stripper whatsoever)

I'm just bored and I know if I sit inside, I'm gonna think about it more and more. I just want to go out with a friend or 2 and have a few drinks and forget about it LoL

There's no where good to go by me without driving over a bridge or into the city. I'm thinking about going up to White Plains for a bit, but really just have no ambition to get in the car and drive, plus I'm really gonna need a designated driver tonight

So any one else get anxious when their FH went to a bachelor party??? This is the 1st time I'm dealin with it and I must say I think I'm taking it pretty well... I trust him, but if I stay in the house I will drive myself insane

mdawg Posted: Sep 15, 2007 08:05 PM

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yeah definitely go out somewhere...if he can have fun, you can too lol.

novia26 Posted: Sep 15, 2007 08:09 PM

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I know how you feel...I hate those parties...but boys will be boys

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 15, 2007 08:35 PM

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UPDATE: I am going out to a bar and I dont have to drive! Woohooooo ... Get ya drink on!!!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Sep 15, 2007 08:40 PM

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Ugh... I'm bad with this. Even when he just goes out with friends I get so jealous. Yay for you having fun tonight! Have an even better time than he does!

NYMetsBride Posted: Sep 15, 2007 10:16 PM

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I would hate it 2. But you have to have fun as well.

Jayla127 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 12:55 AM

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I know it's hard but try not to dwell on it too much. Go hang out yourself.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 16, 2007 03:27 AM

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OKay I am back and drunkkk wohoooo .... havent heard from fh... dunno if he is home... but i;m hopin to pass out so i dont have to think about it./.. ughhhh

Ann 52409 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 07:24 AM

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I'm happy you went out and had a good time... that will help get your mind off of things. My FH hasn't gone to one yet.. I dont know how I'm going to be

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:27 AM

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YES! I feel your pain....i hate when theres wind of a Bachelor party. I get that horrible feeling. but i think its just our mind coming into play. FH tends to laugh if he knows im going to a bachelorette party hes like ha you have to see guys dancing around in thongs. ITs a joke for us, but for us with them its scarey!

Actually though its the safest place at strip clubs, because they cant touch the girls..if thats any consellation(Sp?)

ilovedave1119 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:37 AM

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I'm glad you were able to go out and have a good time! I think that is the only thing that helps me forget about what he's doing when at a bachelor party. If I stay home my mind would just go crazy thinking about what could be happening! I trust him, but come on we're girls and the very thought of our men just googling over other girls (even if they can't touch) is not a very comfortable feeling. But like someone already posted boys will be boys. So we just have to go be girls! haha. get a bunch of girls together, go out and have a great time, so then maybe the men can wonder what we're doing...hahaha.

little34 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:38 AM

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MY FH has never been to one either...I am thinking that his will be his first... I think I will set the ground rules too and try hard not to think about what is going on...his friends are all nuts and one of them even wanted to throw him like 5 since our wedding is so far off...I told them all he gets one and only one!!!!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:42 AM

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My FH is already saying Vegas for his. I'm holding my breath on this. I figure I shouldn't get angry so early because knowing his friends, it will never happen.

Why are girls so dramatically different than guys? My worst nightmare would be to go to a strip club for my bachelorette party. Seriously, those guys sicken me. All waxed and oiled up. Eww!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:55 AM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

My FH is already saying Vegas for his. I'm holding my breath on this. I figure I shouldn't get angry so early because knowing his friends, it will never happen.

Why are girls so dramatically different than guys? My worst nightmare would be to go to a strip club for my bachelorette party. Seriously, those guys sicken me. All waxed and oiled up. Eww!

I already told my girls... no strippers for me... I dont need to be surrounded by all that...

On another note, I woke up this morn with a killer hangover and kinda upset that FH never texted me to say he got home alright or any of that (guess I cant blame him b/c I never asked him to but it would have been nice) And now I woke up thinkin all these crazy thoughts of what went on last night... I swear if his best friend bought him a lap dance and he took it, omg... all hell will break loose... Fh better come clean of what went on last night b/c its gonna drive me crazy if I dont know... UgH I think i'm more upset after the fact than during (but it could have been the alcohol that got my mind to go in a diff direction LOL)

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:57 AM

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Oh 1 more thing.... This bling on my hand does not deter guys whatsoever!!!!!!!!!!!

I would say about 8 guys or so came up to me to try to talk to me which made me feel good. I tried keeping my drinks in my left hand to flash my ring and I think it worked a couple of times but for the majority .... not a chance... LOL

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 16, 2007 12:38 PM

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OKay so finally talked to him today and I felt like I had to keep asking questions to pry info out of him and I feel like theres something hes not telling me and it really makes me angry....

Is it just me or does anyone else feel like its completely pathetic that their Fh will give away their hard earned money to some whore? It wasnt alot of money, but still I dunno... it bothers me...

Summertimegal424 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 01:34 PM

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MEN! lol

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 01:38 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

OKay so finally talked to him today and I felt like I had to keep asking questions to pry info out of him and I feel like theres something hes not telling me and it really makes me angry....

Is it just me or does anyone else feel like its completely pathetic that their Fh will give away their hard earned money to some whore? It wasnt alot of money, but still I dunno... it bothers me...

Haha... my FH Is cheap! He never goes out to strip clubs with his friends for that reason! He's on a softball team and every Sunday morning we hear about his friends being out until 5:00 in the morning and spending $300 or more at a strip club. Our eyes almost bug out of our heads. Insanity! He'd rather buy Xbox 360 or Playstation 3 games with that money. And I'm glad!

ilonka020 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 01:41 PM

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aww. I know how you feel. My fh never went to a bachlor party yet, but when he went to Ireland he went to a strip club with his work friends and got a lap dance. I wasnt mad at the fact that he got one, i was mad at the fact that he lied to me 3 times before he finally told me the truth. If he really wanted one he could have asked me.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 01:47 PM

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FH threw a bachelor party this weekend. For some reason, I wasn't mad, jealous or anything. I totally trust him and I know that he doesn't like strippers anyway. I thikn he got a lap dance...i laughed though...I think it would be hilarious to watch him get a lap dance lol...he would be so akward and grossed out!