WARNING! VENT! FH is at his 1st ever Bachelor Party

Original post by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Sep 15, 2007 08:03 PM

So I'm feeling a lil lonely and a bit anxious... I set down the 'rules' before he left (There is no touching of a stripper whatsoever)

I'm just bored and I know if I sit inside, I'm gonna think about it more and more. I just want to go out with a friend or 2 and have a few drinks and forget about it LoL

There's no where good to go by me without driving over a bridge or into the city. I'm thinking about going up to White Plains for a bit, but really just have no ambition to get in the car and drive, plus I'm really gonna need a designated driver tonight

So any one else get anxious when their FH went to a bachelor party??? This is the 1st time I'm dealin with it and I must say I think I'm taking it pretty well... I trust him, but if I stay in the house I will drive myself insane

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 16, 2007 03:25 PM

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Thanks girls for all the support... I duno why I get like this and some other gurls can be like giving their fh's money to give to strippers... Its just not me and never was... For me, its just not something you do when you have a sig other... blehhhh

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 03:41 PM

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I totally understand Mazz...its gross, tasteless and unnecessary...I guess it helped me that FH texted me during the ngiht to say i love you and tell me that he is happy he is coming home to me. Don't worry about FH not texting you...he probably just lost track of time and got carried away hangin with the guys...(not the strippers!) In the end, you are the only one for him!

meli722 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 05:40 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Oh 1 more thing.... This bling on my hand does not deter guys whatsoever!!!!!!!!!!!

I would say about 8 guys or so came up to me to try to talk to me which made me feel good. I tried keeping my drinks in my left hand to flash my ring and I think it worked a couple of times but for the majority .... not a chance... LOL

the ring sure doesnt do anything! i was 8 months pregnant with a hugeeee stomach and guys still tried to talk to me left and right lol....guys are crazy they dont care if youre married, enagaged, pregnant whatever lol

meli722 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 05:42 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thanks girls for all the support... I duno why I get like this and some other gurls can be like giving their fh's money to give to strippers... Its just not me and never was... For me, its just not something you do when you have a sig other... blehhhh

well for me bachelor party will happen and i will allow him to go....but when you have a sig. other i think going to strip clubs just to go is out of the question.....for a bachelor party theres really nothing i can do about it, because it will happen.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 16, 2007 05:53 PM

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Posted by MISSESPINK722

well for me bachelor party will happen and i will allow him to go....but when you have a sig. other i think going to strip clubs just to go is out of the question.....for a bachelor party theres really nothing i can do about it, because it will happen.

Maybe thats the prob... Maybe b/c we think theres nothing we can do about it, is why they act crazy when they go to these parties... I think we need to start puttin our foot down girls!

meli722 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 05:55 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Posted by MISSESPINK722

well for me bachelor party will happen and i will allow him to go....but when you have a sig. other i think going to strip clubs just to go is out of the question.....for a bachelor party theres really nothing i can do about it, because it will happen.

Maybe thats the prob... Maybe b/c we think theres nothing we can do about it, is why they act crazy when they go to these parties... I think we need to start puttin our foot down girls!

well my thing is when it comes to strip clubs and his friends go...he'll tell me and then stay home.....he knows i would be furious with him if i found out later he did go....but that is when they go just for a b-day or no occassion....for the bachelor party thing i rather know hes going then for him to lie to me and say he isnt going, and then go anyway.

Ms SunnShinne Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:15 PM

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I'm actually very good with this...I just want him to have fun because I'm probably 10 times worse then him when I'm out. And he calls me like crazy when he does go out and continuiously texts me even though I tell him not to worry about me.