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Watching What You Say

FallBride2010 Posted:

Watching What You Say

So my friend just emailed me and mentioned I should be more careful about what I write on here. Do you girls really censor what you write? I've been pretty lax about what I say -- assuming FH's family doesnt even know about this site.

RitasEngaged Posted:

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i don't care what i say i don't think anyone that i know would know to come on here.

I really could give a crap anyway.
grrulz Posted:

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I know!! i don't censor it i don't know if Fh checks the boards, or if FH's family or mine....but I really don't talk badly about them because there's really nothing to complaint about them...but sometimes i do take into consideration like vendors looking at my opinions so i do think before typing a review or say something about a vendor

christine2010 Posted:

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i always watch what i say on any public website (this, myspace, facebook) because they are public & you never know who may read something. a lot of snoopers out there. however i do not like that this site is so public. i always would of liked it if you can only get the forums by log in. IMO

rocketsummer17 Posted:

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At first i didnt care, then someone read something i wrote and took it out of context and it started shyt for FH and I. Now i dont care anymore, if people dont like what I have to say then dont read it...I am going to be myself and be honest on these boards, not going to play and be something I am not and hide the way i feel about things.

amandah75 Posted:

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I try to watch what I say. You really never know who comes on here and I don't want all my business out there. That said, I am still pretty open about stuff, i'm just careful how I put things.

RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by christine2010

i always watch what i say on any public website (this, myspace, facebook) because they are public & you never know who may read something. a lot of snoopers out there. however i do not like that this site is so public. i always would of liked it if you can only get the forums by log in. IMO



I agree I don't know why people can see it.
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by amandah75

I try to watch what I say. You really never know who comes on here and I don't want all my business out there. That said, I am still pretty open about stuff, i'm just careful how I put things.



Wow I would hate to see you let it all out then Amanda!
christine2010 Posted:

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Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by amandah75

I try to watch what I say. You really never know who comes on here and I don't want all my business out there. That said, I am still pretty open about stuff, i'm just careful how I put things.



Wow I would hate to see you let it all out then Amanda!



lol. i agree with that.
Yankees2323 Posted:

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i do n dont

bluegreen08 Posted:

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I write everything with the thought that people I know are reading what I'm writing....

but I am more open on FM
BluAngel93 Posted:

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I think the only person that i know that reads this stuff is my mom, and i def don't have anything bad to say about her (she is, after all, helping us with the wedding...just jokes, hi mom!). I'd prob just try to watch what i say about vendors and stuff...no need to piss anybody off before i've actually booked anything!

JenBill61210 Posted:

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yeah sometimes i get scared about bad-mouthing a vendor just in case... so i will just simply state my experience and will elaborate on FM

T E R I Posted:

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the only person i worry about sometimes is FSIL, i'm not sure if she would ever come on here or if she has any friends on here, but other than that i don't really care

Mrs Z To Be Posted:

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Posted by bluegreen08

I write everything with the thought that people I know are reading what I'm writing....

but I am more open on FM



EXACTLY how I feel.....SOO many times I want to come on here and vent away, BUT I'm scared too!
amandah75 Posted:

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Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by amandah75

I try to watch what I say. You really never know who comes on here and I don't want all my business out there. That said, I am still pretty open about stuff, i'm just careful how I put things.



Wow I would hate to see you let it all out then Amanda!



I don't show all of my cards, but I do like to have fun. Yeah, i'm a lot more open in person, with some people. you gotta know who you can be open to and who you can't. I'm always prim and proper when you first meet me, but those close to me know the truth. A close friend of mine said just the other week how when she first met me she thought i was totally shy and introverted....yeah not so much.
T E R I Posted:

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Posted by amandah75


Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by amandah75

I try to watch what I say. You really never know who comes on here and I don't want all my business out there. That said, I am still pretty open about stuff, i'm just careful how I put things.



Wow I would hate to see you let it all out then Amanda!



I don't show all of my cards, but I do like to have fun. Yeah, i'm a lot more open in person, with some people. you gotta know who you can be open to and who you can't. I'm always prim and proper when you first meet me, but those close to me know the truth. A close friend of mine said just the other week how when she first met me she thought i was totally shy and introverted....yeah not so much.



i'm the same way Amanda, sometimes when people first meet me they think i'm a little snotty because i can be really quiet until i feel comfortable around them , but so far at GTG i've been my total self and very open-which is shocking for me-when it comes to meeting people for the first time
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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Posted by amandah75


Posted by RitasEngaged


Posted by amandah75

I try to watch what I say. You really never know who comes on here and I don't want all my business out there. That said, I am still pretty open about stuff, i'm just careful how I put things.



Wow I would hate to see you let it all out then Amanda!



I don't show all of my cards, but I do like to have fun. Yeah, i'm a lot more open in person, with some people. you gotta know who you can be open to and who you can't. I'm always prim and proper when you first meet me, but those close to me know the truth. A close friend of mine said just the other week how when she first met me she thought i was totally shy and introverted....yeah not so much.



i'm the same way Amanda, sometimes when people first meet me they think i'm a little snotty because i can be really quiet until i feel comfortable around them , but so far at GTG i've been my total self and very open-which is shocking for me-when it comes to meeting people for the first time



Same thing here...but if you think about it we all talk on these boards ALLLLL the time, its like we really do know each other before we all meet (But that first G2G none of us knew what to expect!!!)
grkbarbie Posted:

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i clearly dont care lol.. im the same way offline.. i speak my mind.

SummerBride10 Posted:

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I dont usually have anything bad to say...I speak my mind but I'm the type of person who tries to see the good in everything and I'm optimisstic..blah blah blah. It gives me a bad rep. w/ people because they think I'm a goody-goody or trying to hard Just goes to show you can never win...

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