Girl I am with you 3,000%!!! I am sure the thread would be pulled because of all the 'colorful language'!
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i could get on board with this thread lol
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So I came home to our new house that we have not moved into yet and the house is still having work done to it.....well, FMIL went to the house and yes, did a very nice thing by cleaning our bathroom BUT she put out our brand new decorative towels and bought us bathroom accessories without asking me!
FH- who is the biggest momma's boy called me an ingrate because I got mad!
I know she was doing a good thing- but am I wrong in wanting to keep things brand new untill we move in after the wedding and for wanting to decorate my own house????
Ughhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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FMIL/FSIL are definitely both problems in my life and I've talked about it here before...but a thread like that would encourage a lot of terrible things from me probably
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Ughhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i don't blame you for feeling that way. My MIL told me to let her know if I needed her help cleaning once we moved...I never called her. When it comes to my home I like to do things my way and don't like opinions...that's why its called my home. You could have told her thank you very much but please don't waste your money in buying things as I am unsure of what I really want for each room.
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FSIL has had it in for me every since last year when FMIL sang my praises to everyone. FMIL had surgery and I took a few days off from work to help. FH couldn't get time off and FSIL have toddlers. So I did what I could to help and FSIL got so jealous about all the nice things FMIL was saying about me.
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I am with you!!
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My FMIL would be the Queen of that thread! She's a psycho!
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My FMIL would be the Queen of that thread! She's a psycho!
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This thread could be a lot of fun! lol FMILS will never be happy with their daughter in laws. its just the way things are. She actually got me alone to ask me why I am going to be a good wife and why i love her son and why i think im good enough for him. I was like I couldnt believe she was asking me these questions. she's can be a doll or she can be a nightmare. however when she is a doll she expects you to do something for her in return. everything is a favor .
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donnasmom09
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Posted by bride2bebe
So I came home to our new house that we have not moved into yet and the house is still having work done to it.....well, FMIL went to the house and yes, did a very nice thing by cleaning our bathroom BUT she put out our brand new decorative towels and bought us bathroom accessories without asking me!
FH- who is the biggest momma's boy called me an ingrate because I got mad!
I know she was doing a good thing- but am I wrong in wanting to keep things brand new untill we move in after the wedding and for wanting to decorate my own house????
Ughhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Awww, hon, you totally deserve to call the shots, and we Moms need to remember that!!!!! Mary MOB
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Posted by bride2bebe
So I came home to our new house that we have not moved into yet and the house is still having work done to it.....well, FMIL went to the house and yes, did a very nice thing by cleaning our bathroom BUT she put out our brand new decorative towels and bought us bathroom accessories without asking me!
FH- who is the biggest momma's boy called me an ingrate because I got mad!
I know she was doing a good thing- but am I wrong in wanting to keep things brand new untill we move in after the wedding and for wanting to decorate my own house????
Ughhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aww sweetie, I can't believe this woman! ( actually I can, have a similar story!) That being said, your FH needs to be behind you 1000% otherwise you are going to go through this the rest of your life! FH needs to realize that you are Number 1 and everyone else is a distant 5th. My FMIL from H@LL does sthis sh@t all the time, but FH puts her in her place. He has told her more than once to cut the Cr@p otherwise she won't be in his life anymore. Yes, I know it's ironic that he has to keep saying this to her, but at least he does it. When we are married THEN I will be the one to put her in her place. You really need to have a long convo with FH about this, because my fear is if he doesn't back you now, or understand your point of view, he never will! Good Luck
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I am so there
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Posted by bride2bebe
So I came home to our new house that we have not moved into yet and the house is still having work done to it.....well, FMIL went to the house and yes, did a very nice thing by cleaning our bathroom BUT she put out our brand new decorative towels and bought us bathroom accessories without asking me!
FH- who is the biggest momma's boy called me an ingrate because I got mad!
I know she was doing a good thing- but am I wrong in wanting to keep things brand new untill we move in after the wedding and for wanting to decorate my own house????
Ughhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel ya! My FMIL does nice things but they are nice, nosey things that interfer with what I want to do! I wouldn't call FH a Momma's Boy but he is def not always on my side. He tries to be but always says that he doesn't understand why i don't like his parents! And I do like them they are very generous people but man is she NOSEY!
She even complained to FH that she was sitting at the back table at my bridal shower 'Com' on mother of the groom sitting in the back'
There were only 5 tables! And the front 3 were my family and the bridesmaids so YEA you were int he back. But FH did defend my family witth that one he told her 'Well who was at the front tables her famiyl and bridesmaids? Where else would you go?'
Ugh!
ETA: She also thinks she can tell him things..like what I wrote above and he won't tell me... seriously? We are going to be married! Yea he is going to tell me.
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i feel your pain! when me and FH moved into our apt, me and FMIL went shopping for some needed thing around the apt! so i was picking them out and shes like 'no i was thinking more something like this' ummm what??? can i decorate my own place please! and the stuff she was picking out were totally not my style!! are you living there? or me?
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Posted by peaches42587
This thread could be a lot of fun! lol FMILS will never be happy with their daughter in laws. its just the way things are. She actually got me alone to ask me why I am going to be a good wife and why i love her son and why i think im good enough for him. I was like I couldnt believe she was asking me these questions. she's can be a doll or she can be a nightmare. however when she is a doll she expects you to do something for her in return. everything is a favor .
Umm... What?!?! I would have flipped if she asked me that. Honestly, who does that? Were you on a dating game show?
