we talked when he got home and no its not over.. we are both very stressed me with the wedding, work, money, buying a house and he the wedding , money work , buying a house and he just joined the fire department.... i guess thats why i wasnt upset about it.. b/c i know him well enough to know when he truly means things...
thank you ladies for all your support and i will keep you updated...have a good night
camposal
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I cant believe any semi-mature person would ever relay that type decision over a text message. If the two of you aren't even married yet and he's already willing to throw it away, I think you should reconsider if this is the type of marraige you want. It only gets more challenging from here. There are always obstacles in the best of marraiges and you need to make sure you're committing yourself to someone who takes it seriously and is willing to work to make the marriage strong. You guys definitely need a long sit down.
luvmyhuny
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aww sweetie I am so sorry But you can not text him these things you guys really need to sit down and talk. I know your not in tears as of yet because you prob think he is being the usual not able to talk with kind. But I am telling you this BIG PIECE OF ADVISE.. If you or he is not sure END IT ! Because you will not need to be dealing with a divorce maybe not now but later on.
xoxoxo Your in my prayers.
ambrosbride
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I am SO sorry to hear that .But if you guy live together what are you guys doing now .Just give it a couple of days to see what happens then try to talk to him .Good luck hope everything works out
werock0709
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Sounds to me like he wants some space. Perhaps he's overwhelmed and scared of the whole marriage thing. Maybe he feels pressured. Not everyone is the marrying type. Talk when he can listen with a clear mind, and listen in confidence, knowing that some things are just NOT meant to be. Good Luck!!!
