Wedding Anxiety Dreams

ArmyOfBabies Posted: Aug 08, 2007 03:06 PM

Wedding Anxiety Dreams

I keep having wedding anxiety dreams. In every dream I have it's the day of the wedding and some vendor is late or not showing up or I forgot to get my nails and hair done...

Most recently my dream was that the wedding photographer forgot to meet me at my house and they were at the church when I got there. But then half way through the ceremony I didn't feel well so I went home instead of going to the reception. Then I felt bad about all the money we spent and how people would be expecting me so I put my dress back on and went to the reception. When I got there no one came but my BP!!! And I was complaining that we didn't hit our minimum. Then I got the photo proofs and the pictures were horrible!!! They were of nonsense (not even wedding related) and they were out of focus.

Is anyone else getting these? Or is this a sign of things to come???

lunabride Posted: Aug 08, 2007 03:25 PM

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Definitely not a sign of things to come. I've had tons on wedding nightmares. I think it's completely natural. Don't worry, everything will turn out PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!

sweetdreamz1181 Posted: Aug 08, 2007 03:34 PM

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i have had alot of these dreams too ... its just soo much wedding stuff running threw your mind.... my dream was soo bad last night i had one that i was at FH house and the doorbell kept ringing and people coming over and finally when i rang the last time i stuck my head outside to see who it was and it was a stork with a baby... i woke up right after that and freaked out!

PattyK Posted: Aug 08, 2007 03:41 PM

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Trust me I have had my share of wedding nightmares. I had one last night that the person doing my hair the day of the wedding gave me a mullet or the one that I had that FH decided to do our invitations himself as DIY project and made them out of construction paper, crayons and pictures from magazines!!!

diva7531 Posted: Aug 08, 2007 07:59 PM

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I love Patty's dream!!!! I have had 2 or 3 and they scare me like only 2 others in my life! (about my dad and about DD) They were the same, some of the things I hadn't done yet still weren't done by the wedding!!!!! Almost like the wedding happened the day after I went to sleep! I woke up with my heart pounding! Haven't had one in a while, nut I have been getting a lot of stuff done lately so I feel pretty good. But once I feel like I have a lot of stuff still left to do , I start to panick!!!!!

HeatherRose Posted: Aug 08, 2007 08:35 PM

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i had one recently, that I forgot to book all my vendors, so when we got to the hall, i had no music or flowers or band! it was so weird, and I was freaking out in the dream, and this was right after I finished booking all my vendors.. so weird

janisde Posted: Aug 09, 2007 07:52 AM

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Yes!! I've had a bunch of nightmares: purple thigh highs and a tea-length wedding dress, ugh, bad hair, big ugly shoes! Lately its not so much the nightmares - its waking up every few hours stressing!

jenn122397 Posted: Aug 09, 2007 09:16 AM

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i actually had one last night - it was really weird!
FH and i had the most amazing time but it flew by and we didnt remember little details so at the end of the night we were hanging out at the hall with my family and my mom showed me the CPS - they were weeds! so i was crying and then someone told us they put on a show with vegas showgirls and everyone was so upset.
i have NO worries about my florist so i guess its just from stress in general and not wedding issues