Is it just me or is anyone else have doubts? My day is 7 months away and I think I have a case of the jitters. I keep thinking about a coworker of mine and what it would be like to have an affair. Am I normal?
Totally normal but DON'T act on it you'll regret it I think.
There's a reason you said yes to your honey...keep thinking about that when you have your doubts.
My hang-up is ex-boyfriends and regrets. It helped to get rid of any and all pictures of them and realize the past is the past and the current & future is w/my current love!
Be true to yourself...the jitters will go away :)
-A
Also consider what you are nervous about. Are you nervous because you think that you might be making a mistake or nervous that the wedding day will not go perfectly? Many years ago I was engaged to a wonderful guy but once we got engaged I was so nervous all the time. It was not jitters. It was that he and I were not meant to get married. It took a few months for both of us to figure it all out but when we did we moved on. Everyone I know that is divorced told me that they knew, deep down in their gut, that it wasn't right but didn't want to admit the problems and was afraid what others would think if the wedding was closed off.
I think it is easy for people just to say you have jitters, but it is the reason behind the jitters that is important. Only you know what is going on inside. If you are just nervous about living with someone new, about the responsiblity of marriage that is normal and very common. Just exam for yourself the jitters and you will know what to do. Trust yourself.
Just because you fantasize about someone doesn't mean you don't want to get married. Hell your not dead! You could be a happily married woman doesn't mean that seeing Pierce Brosnan (you could use anyone in that circumstance! He's my hottie) wouldn't make your heart flutter & mind go places.
An ex of mine called out of the blue a few weeks back & I was blushing the whole time on the phone. He's married & I wouldn't do anything but the flashbacks came. It's normal. Don't do anything rash without REALLY thinking about the consequences! Good Luck!
Pierce Brosnan is my Hottie too!!!
