Wedding deal-breaker arguments ...

So what are some questions / things that are deal-breakers for you as far as your relationships.

For me, I would not stay with FH if
-- he cheated on me
-- he didn't want children (or didn't want them in the same time-frame as i want them)
-- he didn't love animals

how about you guys?

He cheated on me.
He stopped cooking for me!

those are all pretty accurate.

oh and if he doesn't convert from a red sox fan to a yankee fan come june 19th!!! lmao kiddinggg.

- cheating
- not wanting children......DEF not going to work for me!
- physically or verbally abusive (well, I would kick his azz right back to his mother if that ever happened)

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

So what are some questions / things that are deal-breakers for you as far as your relationships.

For me, I would not stay with FH if
-- he cheated on me
-- he didn't want children (or didn't want them in the same time-frame as i want them)
-- he didn't love animals

how about you guys?

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I think those are the big ones for me, too!

if he starts voting democrat i'm out the door.

sorry ladies.

my secret is out.

we're conservatives. don't eat us alive.

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Posted by weddingbees

if he starts voting democrat i'm out the door.

sorry ladies.

my secret is out.

we're conservatives. don't eat us alive.

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nom nom nom

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Posted by weddingbees

if he starts voting democrat i'm out the door.

sorry ladies.

my secret is out.

we're conservatives. don't eat us alive.

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Posted by weddingbees

if he starts voting democrat i'm out the door.

sorry ladies.

my secret is out.

we're conservatives. don't eat us alive.

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It's okay, nobody's perfect.

-Cheating
-Abuse (mental or physical)

and if he ever became a Yankee fan!

(only half kidding about the last one)

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Posted by weddingbees

if he starts voting democrat i'm out the door.

sorry ladies.

my secret is out.

we're conservatives. don't eat us alive.

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We are right there with you

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Posted by weddingbees

mmmm. crunchy granola liberals. nom nom nom.

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I knew you'd like eating me!

- if he smoked
- if he didn't step up and be more determined with his job

umm... yeah.

-cheater
-abuse (verbal/physical)
-drugs

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Posted by Future Mrs H

-Cheating
-Abuse (mental or physical)

and if he ever became a Yankee fan!

(only half kidding about the last one)

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hmmm we're gonna have problems. lol jk.

im a hardcore yankee fan and FH is a hardcore red sox fan from MA!!!! it's a mixed marriage.

don't worry-there's a few of us conservatives on here..

for me if he didn't have drive/motivation
i also knew i wanted someone intelligent and educated

okay but in all seriousness.

yeah, if he cheated.

we both have major lines of alcoholism in our family. my biological father is a raging alcoholic. his mother died of cirhosis or however you spell it. my grandfather on my mom's side is a recovered alcoholic and FH's dad is recovering as well.

so if FH ever starts drinking a lot... it will cause problems.

or if he starts smoking i will beat him. i think its so nasty.