I had 2 people come to the wedding and not give a gift-not even a card. How do you handle a situation like that?? Do I still send them a thank you card? any thoughts?
grkbarbie
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calll them and tell them that u lost their card and to stop payment on their check.
they will feel like shyt.. or maybe Thank you cuz maybe it was misplaced??
either way call them.
JayBee216
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I would DEF send them a 'thank you for coming and sharing in our day' note. Who knows - maybe they're sending a gift afterwards? I know I do that sometimes...
AwaitingAugust
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Posted by grkbarbie
calll them and tell them that u lost their card and to stop payment on their check.
they will feel like shyt.. or maybe Thank you cuz maybe it was misplaced??
either way call them.
I would just send a card that says something like: 'thanks for sharing our wedding day with us'
though i wish i had the balls to do what grkbarbie suggests
MikesBride2B
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I would write a thank you, since they came out, but I wouldn't mention anything about their 'generous' gift or anything.
Jna2010
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Posted by grkbarbie
calll them and tell them that u lost their card and to stop payment on their check.
they will feel like shyt.. or maybe Thank you cuz maybe it was misplaced??
either way call them.
ita thats the best way to go about it cuz youre not accusing them your just 'looking out' for them lol
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Posted by grkbarbie
calll them and tell them that u lost their card and to stop payment on their check.
they will feel like shyt.. or maybe Thank you cuz maybe it was misplaced??
either way call them.
Def do this!
kris_gets_hitched
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Posted by MikesBride2B
I would write a thank you, since they came out, but I wouldn't mention anything about their 'generous' gift or anything.
Agreed!
elisa112101
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i would def send a thank-you card... they did eat your food and drink your booze.. it would be wrong NOT to send a TY card!
Spring143
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one was my dads friend from the kofc which my mom said he may have thought it was an honorable invite but the other was from my college friend-which is soo unlike her to not bring a gift but maybe she forgot it. shes kinda like that.
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Posted by Spring143
I had 2 people come to the wedding and not give a gift-not even a card. How do you handle a situation like that?? Do I still send them a thank you card? any thoughts?
I agree too - def still send them a card.
They def didn't give you anything though? Like it wasn't lost? I know my best friend got a couple cards with IOUs in them and got gifts later, but that's crazy not to get anything.
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Posted by grkbarbie
calll them and tell them that u lost their card and to stop payment on their check.
they will feel like shyt.. or maybe Thank you cuz maybe it was misplaced??
either way call them.
ITA - but I would wait a month or so, maybe they forgot the card - they could be sending it. . .
AngnShaun
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i would send a thank you ... but i wouldnt bring up the gift at all
SummerBride10
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I'd just send a thank you for sharing our day card. maybe wait like a month or so..just in case something is coming.
SuzanneK
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I forgot my cousins card at home for her wedding but I called the next day and told her I would drop it off to her. I explained Im a scatter brain maybe they just forgot and its in the mail (wishful thinking). I would still send a thank you to them for sharing in your day.
