wedding night!

Anyone going to hold out for a certain period of time until their wedding night?

a month, a week.?..anything


i kinda wanted the WEDDING night to be atleast a lil different... i guess if i hold out for a month..it will be a lil more special

thankfully i dont live with FH...cuz than it'd be impossible

actually i dont have expectations! ... i think


from what i hear, most people say theyre too tired, too sleepy, or too drunk to do anything !

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Posted by luvabul

Anyone going to hold out for a certain period of time until their wedding night?

a month, a week.?..anything


i kinda wanted the WEDDING night to be atleast a lil different... i guess if i hold out for a month..it will be a lil more special

thankfully i dont live with FH...cuz than it'd be impossible

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Yea..me and FH dont live together either..so it def. helps lol...currently we are at about 3mths....its hard...but I think we can do it..

We were talking about this last week
I said 1 month before...he said NO EFFIN WAY! THen added that we would be too tired to the night of so why wait.....

we did not hold out at all.
with all the stress that goes on during wedding planning- doing the deed alleviates some of that stress!

TRUST ME!

I told FH we should hold out. And he said, 'sure if you don't mind it being two seconds long' Needless to say we wont be holding out.

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Posted by luvabul

Anyone going to hold out for a certain period of time until their wedding night?

a month, a week.?..anything


i kinda wanted the WEDDING night to be atleast a lil different... i guess if i hold out for a month..it will be a lil more special

thankfully i dont live with FH...cuz than it'd be impossible

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we lived together for a few months before the wedding. i held out for five weeks. it wasn't too bad. we were so stressed that it didn't matter.

now, i wish i could go back to that... he's a RABBIT!!

i have talked about this with siblings and cousins - and four out of four who are married said they fell asleep on their wedding night lol like the moment they walked into the hotel or their home so i guess it wasnt special for them!

Havnet you ever heard of the 20/80 theory?

Only 20% of people have sex on their wed night and 80% DONT!!

Im in the 80%.

TRUST ME- you are EXHAUSTED!!!

we did not hold out -only for a week-because I was on LI and he was in CT...

well, we did do it on our wedding night, but I completely agree that many people are too tired....

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Posted by conigs25

Havnet you ever heard of the 20/80 theory?

Only 20% of people have sex on their wed night and 80% DONT!!

Im in the 80%.

TRUST ME- you are EXHAUSTED!!!

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i have never heard of that too funny. . .
it is the 100% theory in my family apparently

FH & I are holding out period the excitment is intense when i finally get him hes gonna need cpr

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Posted by conigs25

Havnet you ever heard of the 20/80 theory?

Only 20% of people have sex on their wed night and 80% DONT!!

Im in the 80%.

TRUST ME- you are EXHAUSTED!!!

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Finally some reality to the boards.

Seriously I fell asleep and my husband had to wake me up to ..you know....You are so damn tired thats the last thing on your mind But I am proud to say I stuck it out while my husband stuck it in......OOOO that was bad Im so sorry for that dirty statement I could not help myself Im a lil bored today and sick

omg haha, men are never tired?!

im sure i will be wayyy to tired it may the wedding morning