Wedding photography locations - help!!

I'm getting married in Mineola, getting ready in Westbury. I wanted to take first look pics before the ceremony but both Old Westbury Gardens and planting fields have big events that day and I can't take pics - I need suggestions ! :)

Preferably nassau but suffolk is okay if it's not too East. I'm really desperate now because the wedding is weeks away and I don't know what to do :( where did you take pics??