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Wedding Question - Is this your dream?

stinenandy2010 Posted:

Wedding Question - Is this your dream?

So a lot of girls grow up just fantasizing about their wedding day....so my question is, are you planning the wedding you always imagined? how is it different? are you restricted because of the dreaded 'b' word (budget!)?

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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I think so far this wedding is exactly what I wanted....the only thing that is different than I pictured is the ballroom, I pictured a grand-type of ballroom. My reception room is smaller but inimate and just so romantic-feeling.

JenBill61210 Posted:

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well i did not think i would have a daytime wedding but i have to compromise somewhere since i am not made of money. i know it will still be beautiful though.

soontobecruz Posted:

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I'd have to say... yes... yes... and YES! I can't imagine anything different than the one I am planning, I can't wait to see it all come to life.

AdriandSteve Posted:

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I was never the one to dream abuot my wedding. EVER actually. lol

i was never able to say the word marriage or wedding in regards to myself until pretty recently.

Kids (in regards to mine) is still a hard thing for me to say. I call them 'things' lol
CloudNine Posted:

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well i always thought about gettin married and going through the motions but i never worked out the details in my head. maybe just the dress...and the dress i chose fits the idea of what i wanted.

i think alot of ideas change once you actually get into wedding planning and start seeing your choices and stuff
jayepyt Posted:

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yes and no bc when i was younger i wanted a gown with sleeves and i dont like those anymore

Jna2010 Posted:

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i think its pretty close! Granted if it wasnt for a budget ::gasp:: i'd prob have one of those platinum weddings and not think twice about it, lol, but i have to say that im pretty much getting everything ive always wanted!

MrsC2010 Posted:

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so far the only difference is its a friday night instead of saturday night

christine2010 Posted:

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truthfully i never really dreamed of the wedding. i knew in the back of my head that FH & i would get married but thats different then wedding. i never spoke about us getting married until after we were engaged. i think in the 8 years prior to getting engaged FH & i only spoke about getting married twice. once a couple of months after we started dating & once a year before we got engaged.

i was always too busy dreaming about us having a house & kids to dream about a wedding.
Lsorrent Posted:

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So far it's going that way. But I still have a lot to do. I think the only thing that might happen not in my plans is that FH wants an Incredible Hulk ice sculpture instead of the usual ones. I'm actually debating letting him get one...................

angelatp Posted:

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Actually never thought about it, so making it up as I go.

StaceYums81 Posted:

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I never dreamed of getting married and what I would want as a kid...

I know they say every little girl dreams of their wedding day but that wasn't the case for me...
little j Posted:

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never dreamed of the wedding or the details or the planning. only started thinking about it after FH and I were dating for a year and then i thought of it as a possibility. but even then, never really pictured anything.

when i was younger i dreamed of BEING married and having kids...but everything before that...the planning, heck, even the dating...never really dreamed of.
T E R I Posted:

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Posted by StaceYums81

I never dreamed of getting married and what I would want as a kid...

I know they say every little girl dreams of their wedding day but that wasn't the case for me...



me either, and here i thought i was the only one
lori7570 Posted:

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I wanted to be in a mansion or castle....but everything else is the way I picture it....


Except thanks to the site I want uplighting whihc is too expensive!!
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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I always knew I wanted to get married, but when i started planning I realized that I didn't have an idea of what type of wedding, the colors, the dress, etc.

Now we are on a very strict budget, so to say this would be a dream wedding? Hmmmm
I probably would say no.

But FH still has hopes he hits MEGA so I could nuts and have the wedding of a lifetime.

But all seriousness...the fact that I am marrying the love of my life is a dream in itself.
RitasEngaged Posted:

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My wedding is exactly what I wanted it to be. Money has really not been an option so far.

the only difference is i am getting married on a sunday night - thought i would be getting married on a fri or sat and the only reason why i am is because of minimum
LaurenJosh Posted:

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Posted by JenBill61210

well i did not think i would have a daytime wedding but i have to compromise somewhere since i am not made of money. i know it will still be beautiful though.



Same here! I always envisioned a night wedding but I'm saving a lot by having it during the day.
Jenna_and_John Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i think its pretty close! Granted if it wasnt for a budget ::gasp:: i'd prob have one of those platinum weddings and not think twice about it, lol, but i have to say that im pretty much getting everything ive always wanted!



Perfectly said, ditto!

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