Wedding Ring....

So, I stopped to get my E-ring cleaned this weekend, and while they were cleaning it, I was looing at wedding bands. I fell IN LOVE with a diamond band. I tried it on, and my E-ring is to low! It's leaves a gap with every ring I tried on. I'm not crazy about the chevron bands, and don't know what else to do. The lady said the could reset my diamond into a setting with 'shoulders', but I really like the setting FH picked out...what do I do?
How will I find a ring that will work with my E- ring?

i have a slight gap between my rings and to be honest, it doesn't matter to me.

the gap between the rings doesn't matter..(to me)...it's about what the ring represents, not how close the rings are!

My diamond is set low as well, it's an antique setting/band so no wedding band sat flush with my e-ring. And I even got a band custom made, the design matches so they complement each other, but they don't touch each other completely. And it's fine. To be perfectly honest, I see ALOT of e-ring/band combos that don't sit flush with each other, I think it's increasingly more common now because e-rings are so 'different' now, they range in setting/style from the standard band with the solitaire that they used to all be. People are getting vintage/antique designs for their e-ring and it's very hard to have something sit flush with those. My e-ring looks beautiful with my wedding band and there's a gap. Don't worry at all, just get a band you love. And remember, it always leaves the option open for you to wear them on separate hands as well.

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Posted by cherish83

I have the same problem!! it really annoys me.. I've seriously contemplated changing the setting but I dont want to hurt FHs feelings. If she said it was possible to put 'shoulders' I would do it, so you keep the original setting, but modifications.

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Sorry, I wansn't clear...she didn't say they could add shoulders, they could take my diamond out of my setting and we would have to pay to upgrade to a setting with shoulders...then I would have my original setting for some other gem...but I don't want to do that. My FH took my mom to help him pick it out, and I love my setting....

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Posted by davenjess

i have a slight gap between my rings and to be honest, it doesn't matter to me.

the gap between the rings doesn't matter..(to me)...it's about what the ring represents, not how close the rings are!

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I feel the same way, but the problem is, that my e-ring prong was rubbing against the prongs of the wedding band, and she said that over time, it would damage the wedding band. The last thing I would want is to damage a ring that is so special to me. That's why I am trying to find a better way...

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Posted by missliss

My diamond is set low as well, it's an antique setting/band so no wedding band sat flush with my e-ring. And I even got a band custom made, the design matches so they complement each other, but they don't touch each other completely. And it's fine. To be perfectly honest, I see ALOT of e-ring/band combos that don't sit flush with each other, I think it's increasingly more common now because e-rings are so 'different' now, they range in setting/style from the standard band with the solitaire that they used to all be. People are getting vintage/antique designs for their e-ring and it's very hard to have something sit flush with those. My e-ring looks beautiful with my wedding band and there's a gap. Don't worry at all, just get a band you love. And remember, it always leaves the option open for you to wear them on separate hands as well.

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Can I see what you decided on for a wedding ring?

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Posted by mariana881

i have a really low setting too, so nothing sits flush. I will have my diamond raised so that the setting remains the same, only with a higher basket.

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How do they do that?

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Posted by autumnbride10

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Posted by missliss

My diamond is set low as well, it's an antique setting/band so no wedding band sat flush with my e-ring. And I even got a band custom made, the design matches so they complement each other, but they don't touch each other completely. And it's fine. To be perfectly honest, I see ALOT of e-ring/band combos that don't sit flush with each other, I think it's increasingly more common now because e-rings are so 'different' now, they range in setting/style from the standard band with the solitaire that they used to all be. People are getting vintage/antique designs for their e-ring and it's very hard to have something sit flush with those. My e-ring looks beautiful with my wedding band and there's a gap. Don't worry at all, just get a band you love. And remember, it always leaves the option open for you to wear them on separate hands as well.

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Can I see what you decided on for a wedding ring?

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Just saw this, I'm sorry. Sure, I have pics of them together on my computer at home. I'll FM them to you tonight.

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by autumnbride10

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Posted by missliss

My diamond is set low as well, it's an antique setting/band so no wedding band sat flush with my e-ring. And I even got a band custom made, the design matches so they complement each other, but they don't touch each other completely. And it's fine. To be perfectly honest, I see ALOT of e-ring/band combos that don't sit flush with each other, I think it's increasingly more common now because e-rings are so 'different' now, they range in setting/style from the standard band with the solitaire that they used to all be. People are getting vintage/antique designs for their e-ring and it's very hard to have something sit flush with those. My e-ring looks beautiful with my wedding band and there's a gap. Don't worry at all, just get a band you love. And remember, it always leaves the option open for you to wear them on separate hands as well.

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Can I see what you decided on for a wedding ring?

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Just saw this, I'm sorry. Sure, I have pics of them together on my computer at home. I'll FM them to you tonight.

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Thanks!