WEDDING SABOTAGE!

Here is something I read in an email:

We've seen it done on soap operas, a few times in the movies (The Graduate, My Best Friend's Wedding and The Wedding Crashers come to mind), and even in a couple Hollywood romances (case in point: Jason Patrick ran away with best bud Kiefer Sutherland's girl Julia Roberts days before their wedding) but we've never actually met anyone that set out to deliberately sabotage someone else’s wedding day. Enter the embittered ex-girlfriend of your FH.

In a recent New York Times article, tales of missing dresses, MIA limos and showing up uninvited at the wedding were just some examples of exes taking out their revenge on the bride and groom.

'I thought to myself, I'm going to tell him I miss him, ruin his wedding, and no longer be the only one who's still single,' one former sabotager states in the article.

Maybe it's just me, but it seems like the art of letting go is the best wedding gift you can give or receive.

Do you or your FH have someone who's trying to sabotage your wedding day?

Geez, i certainly hope not! I now have certain hings in place to help avoid any distubances.

FH & i are rock-solid in our relationship. jealous exes will be sorely disappointed if they try to get between us.

the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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Posted by beram63


the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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THAT is scary! lol i've had a conversation with ALL my vendors about this. I made them aware that cancellations or ANY changes HAVE to be made IN PERSON ONLY!

FH's ex is happily married and mine are happy to be single There's no one trying to sabotage us and even if there were, we'd both just laugh!

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Posted by fabulousmady

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Posted by beram63


the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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THAT is scary! lol i've had a conversation with ALL my vendors about this. I made them aware that cancellations or ANY changes HAVE to be made IN PERSON ONLY!

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I had a mishap already and for me it was a lesson learned....trust no one! I too made arrangements w/ vendors that all cancellations are done in person also. They're sick ppl out there who cannot stand to see others happy.

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Posted by beram63
the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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That was a hoax. Didn't happen. Girl A came online saying she cancelled girl B's vendors. Girl A and girl B were actually the same person. Looks like someone needed some attention in a bad way.

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Posted by TheLadyJ

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Posted by beram63
the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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That was a hoax. Didn't happen. Girl A came online saying she cancelled girl B's vendors. Girl A and girl B were actually the same person. Looks like someone needed some attention in a bad way.

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Actually one of the vendors I visited said that someone actually called her trying to do that last year and she got suspicious. Weirdos!

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Posted by ace730

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Posted by TheLadyJ

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Posted by beram63
the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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That was a hoax. Didn't happen. Girl A came online saying she cancelled girl B's vendors. Girl A and girl B were actually the same person. Looks like someone needed some attention in a bad way.

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Actually one of the vendors I visited said that someone actually called her trying to do that last year and she got suspicious. Weirdos!

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I'm not saying there aren't vicious people out there who would try to ruin the wedding. All I am saying is that the infamous LIW sabateur wasn't real.

ACtually, I find it hard to believe that people would be able to get enough info from this site to be able to cancel someone else's affair.

Hi my name is 'Amy 'and I would like to cancel the booking I made for you on August 13th. No, I don't have any other information other than my first name and the fact I am booked with you on that date.

Honestly guys, I have someone like this. All the time I worry about him showing up at my wedding and making some crazy scene. I was with my ex for 8 1/2 years. It's a really REALLY long story. But he's nuts. Plain and simple. And obsessive. And capable of bad stuff. Sooooo I worry. It really suucks too, because I'm finally so happy for once in my life. I was in a terrible place for almost a decade, and since I've been with my FH, it's like a whole new me. All I want is just to move on and never have to think about my ex again. But he just keeps popping up and draining me. Sorry to vent, but it's very nerve racking and pretty scary. I actually have had reservations about posting my wedding location in my avatar because of him. Oh well. I just try to stay positive and not think about it. Oh, and I will definitely be warning all of FH's groomsmen, uncles, and my dad about this guy possibly showing up :)

ETA: dammn censorship! Fixed it.

I have to admit i'm a little worried about my wedding being sabotaged by my own sister.
I'm afraid that she might pour ink on my dress the morning of. or take a hedge clipper to my boquet and tell me that it arrived that way, or even go as far as stealing money envelopes out of the card box.
we have a good relationship and she's not jealous about the wedding. i know she's not secretly in love with my FH.
She just has her moments were she can be a little vendictive. sometimes i just don't put anything pass her.

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Posted by fancyface1955

I have to admit i'm a little worried about my wedding being sabotaged by my own sister.
I'm afraid that she might pour ink on my dress the morning of. or take a hedge clipper to my boquet and tell me that it arrived that way, or even go as far as stealing money envelopes out of the card box.
we have a good relationship and she's not jealous about the wedding. i know she's not secretly in love with my FH.
She just has her moments were she can be a little vendictive. sometimes i just don't put anything pass her.

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OMG! I have the exact same fear, except my sister is a little jealous because she cannot stand the fact that the attention will not be on her for one day!

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Posted by beram63

FH & i are rock-solid in our relationship. jealous exes will be sorely disappointed if they try to get between us.

the angry LIW bride canceling vendors and whatnot--that's scary!

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Totally agree. Good Luck guy! But the chick made me think about just having an extra call to me personally in case. Even though i know its difficult to really cancel things.