Wedding Video Song Selections

Hi Ladies,

I'm meeting with my videographer next week to go over everything for my wedding and he asked me to bring 9 songs that I want in the video.

I have no clue what to choose. I don't want to use really slow songs, classical or country music.

Here's a list of what I need:
1. Bride Getting Ready song - I was thinking about using At Last but not sure if that goes well and it's a slow song/
2. Need Groom Getting Ready song
3. Guests Arriving Song
4. Cocktail Hour Song
5. 2 extra songs

So far I picked the photo montage song which is heaven - bryan adams. Our wedding recap will be our song, you're my everything - mazz and the honeymoon montage will be I'm Yours by Jay Mraz.

Does anyone have any suggestions? Would love some help! Thx!