weddings in Kansas

failurebydsign Posted: Jan 21, 2007 11:55 PM

weddings in Kansas

so this is where i live..kansas..dont really know why..but anyways

people here do wedding VERY different then NY..

people think its crazy how im planning mine

they bring a portable stereo to a banquet facility for music.. subway caters it.. and out of like 15 girls i work with who are all married..they didnt spend more then 3,000 total budget for everything

THIS IS WEIRD

DavaDay Posted: Jan 22, 2007 12:22 AM

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True, but I bet their marriages are just as good as Long Island marriages, and that's what counts.

Espo22 Posted: Jan 22, 2007 12:25 AM

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Almost every state outside of ny is very different when it comes to weddings...Just like it seems weird to us how they do it, it seems weird to them how we do it...Also its hard to compare prices for a wedding in ny and elsewhere...I know people who do have it at a nice place, and go all out in places outside of NY and they can even do exactly what we will do but it will still cost alot less.

failurebydsign Posted: Jan 22, 2007 12:27 AM

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i went to one last saturday and it was really formal..it was in a hotel and everything..whole sitdown dinner..real nice..but more then half the guests were wearing jeans and tshirts..i was too dressed up..but thats what i do..its a wedding so look nice

DavaDay Posted: Jan 22, 2007 12:29 AM

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Posted by failurebydsign

i went to one last saturday and it was really formal..it was in a hotel and everything..whole sitdown dinner..real nice..but more then half the guests were wearing jeans and tshirts..i was too dressed up..but thats what i do..its a wedding so look nice

Yeah I can understand that. But whenever I don't know how much to dress up for a party, I always say to myself, 'nothing wrong with being the best looking one in the room!'

cherish83 Posted: Jan 22, 2007 09:13 AM

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Posted by DavaDay

True, but I bet their marriages are just as good as Long Island marriages, and that's what counts.

Thats true!! But thats crazy! I mean i wouldnt mind just spending 3000 on my wedding Im paying more than that just for photos!! But its going to be a magical day and honestly i wouldnt have it any other way

Julybride08 Posted: Jan 22, 2007 11:08 AM

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Posted by failurebydsign

i went to one last saturday and it was really formal..it was in a hotel and everything..whole sitdown dinner..real nice..but more then half the guests were wearing jeans and tshirts..i was too dressed up..but thats what i do..its a wedding so look nice

I went to a wedding in italy and they wore jeans. I felt so over dressed.

But they do wedding very differently anywhere outside of NY

cherish83 Posted: Jan 22, 2007 11:13 AM

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Posted by Julybride08

Posted by failurebydsign

i went to one last saturday and it was really formal..it was in a hotel and everything..whole sitdown dinner..real nice..but more then half the guests were wearing jeans and tshirts..i was too dressed up..but thats what i do..its a wedding so look nice

I went to a wedding in italy and they wore jeans. I felt so over dressed.

But they do wedding very differently anywhere outside of NY

i've heard that too

Ilovebriani Posted: Jan 22, 2007 12:31 PM

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yeah. it's crazy how different people do weddings. we probably look like spoiled brats to some other people

failurebydsign Posted: Jan 22, 2007 12:42 PM

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i know...people at work were like..wow you must be loaded..and im not at all..my parents just want to make sure its a perfect day..

not that you have to spend a lot of money to have it nice..but you owe it to your guests to treat them well