~~ Wednesday's QOTD~~

Good Morning everyone!!


Sorry I have been ***** this week. Work has been crazy!! I was sent on Monday and Tuesday to grade the NYS 4th & 7th grade ELA exams. Today starts the NYS Math exam so I have been swamped with work. I CAN NOT wait for Friday to be over!!

Here is today's QOTD

What is one thing FH does that gets on your nerves?

What is something you do that drives him crazy?

FH does many things that get on my nerves.. here is the top 2:
~ He will put his glass on dish on the side of the sink, rather than placing it inside the sink (or better yet, washing it!)
~ When he leaves his clothes on the floor instead of putting them in his drawers or hamper. (He claims this is in case he gets a fire call in the middle of the night, and has to go quickly)

I am sure I do many things that get on his nerves, but the main this is my OCD. I am narotic about organization and cleaning. I definitely do go a little overboard with it- but he doesn't have to know that!

FH is a movie fanatic and I haven't seen many movies so one night a week he picks a movie he loves for me to watch. The thing that drives me crazy is he will say the lines the actors are saying like 5 seconds before they say it!! He doesn't do it for the whole movie - just the really good lines!

And it drives him crazy that I keep the whole house clean but my room is a complete mess!!

FH did this today so it's fresh on my mind.

It annoys the hell outta me that FH can NOT take a direct route anywhere. If he has to wait at a red light, he will make a turn, zizag around for an alternate route that ALWAYS takes longer in the end. OH EM GEEE it drives me bananas. Just friggin WAIT man, waittt!

One way I drive FH crazy is by bringing in all the junk mail saying that 'I wanna look through it!' and I never do and they end up strewn everywhere until he throws it away

FH constantly wants to make people happy - he always wants to keep the peace which I know sounds nice but sometimes he needs to man up. Also - he kinda needs to grow up. His attachment to his family kinda drives me a little nuts - there are some circumstances that have lead to this being so but its time to cut the cord.

For me - I have a short temper lol which probably freaks him out.

You want me to pick one thing?!

FH ALWAYS thinks he's right. It doesn't matter what you say, or if you know you are right. He is dogmatic. I've learned to let it roll off my shoulders, but sometimes I want to

I annoy FH because I try to do seven things at one time, and he'd rather that I lay down with him on the couch.

The cooking/cleaning/laundry/everything is not going to do itself!

One thing that FH does that gets on my nerves is when he's so focused on his computer that he always just goes, uhuh. but then i ask him what did i just ask, and he actually did listen, but it annoys the heck out of me that he won't give me an answer besides uhuh~!!!!

I'm pretty sure FH is getting annoyed at the fact that i call his computer game lame. IT IS!!!

What is one thing FH does that gets on your nerves?
His pure laziness. I'll ask him to like change a lightbulb or clean the dishes in the sink or clean 'his room' (we have a 2 bedroom apt. and the smaller bedroom is his 'man cave' which is always a pig sty) and when I get home all I see him doing is playing video games and nothing of what I asked him to do is done. I seriously don't understand why you can't take a totaly of 20 minutes out of your day to do something that will help me out so I won't have to do it after a long day at work, going to the gym, and then coming home to have to cook dinner. Especially lately, we are going to have some of his family members staying in our apt. who are coming in for the wedding next week and I want the apt. in prestine condition before they arrive. I asked FH last night to do a couple of things before I got home and lo and behold he was playing video games and nothing was done. I simply said (in a higher voice than usual and with THAT tone) 'You know all I am trying to do is get this place clean for YOUR relatives, but that's just fine, you sit there and do absolutely nothing to help while I get this place in order all by myself' and that got his a$$ up quick to help. But, it's all partially my fault because I am an enabler and he knows that if he doesn't do it I am going to do it cuz that's just the person that I am(really need to get out of this habit).

What is something you do that drives him crazy?
He drives me crazy enough that no matter what I do that drives him crazy I don't care... he can deal with it LOL

FH is freaking cranky in the am and we're commuting together lately. He makes me so mad that he's in a bad mood when hello...we bth have long days ahead of us. Whatever.

He's also ALWAYS LATE for everything. Ugh..I mean everything. You had 6 hrs to get ready and now you decide to do laundry before we go? ***?

I make him crazy in general. He complains I never clean. Ok, so I hate cleaning, but I do make sure we eat, and bills get paid and stuff. Hello..you clean.

besides call of duty?

this is so petty, but he always puts his wallet/chapstick/hat/other daily items on the bookcase (that I display stuff on) instead of in the container I got him by the front door. lol, it's ridiculous but it drives me nuts. i guess that's a good sign that THAT's the most annoying thing I have to deal with.

FH HATES HATES HATES when i cook a huge meal and then leave the dishes in the sink for dayssss...i do it because i know he'll eventually clean them and hey! i made the dinner, so why should i have to clean lol

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Posted by WeezyGirl2354

FH constantly wants to make people happy - he always wants to keep the peace which I know sounds nice but sometimes he needs to man up. .

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FH is like this also, he's just too nice sometimes, and I have to be the one to man up - I have no problem doing it though

it bugs me when i can't get a straight answer out of FH. i can ask him 1 million times and he will run around the question or avoid it completely until i give up, just because he thinks its funny.
and he only does this with stupid questions! never on important ones! like if i ask him, oh, did you ever take a girl here (because i might want to make a joke about it) and he will start this process.

sigh.

PROCRASTINATES OVER EVERY THING!!!!

and it annoys the heck out of him that i make plans for everything way ahead of time. We have very busy lives if i dont plan ahead of time nothing gets done! BC when i leave things for him to plan it really doesnt get done

The 2 biggest things he does that gets under my skin is biting his fingers- I would say nails, but he has nothing left! Its a DISGUSTING habit and he takes it to another level. His fingers are raw.Every time I see him biting I hit his arm to deter him- and he's starting to get mad at me- I inform him 'I hit you because I love you'. He's already had MRSA once, I am worried he will get it again.

The other thing is when he is telling you something you already know, he makes it sound like he's a genius for figuring it out
Example:
Me: 'It is so hot today'
FH: 'Well, it is sunny with no clouds- so it would be hot today'
Does he think I can't figure it out???

What I do that drives him crazy- I have a clothes pile in our room in front of my closet....its organized chaos in my eyes, but a mess in his.

It doesn't make me crazy, but it annoys me that when he cooks he makes such a mess. He wont throw things out and clean up while cooking. Also, he leaves his cups or cans/bottles around the house after he's done drinking it. Never throws it out. LOL

He gets annoyed at me when I leave the sponge in the sink with the dirty dishes...eat the heel of the bread because he said it doesn't stay as fresh...

These are little things we joke with each other about. :)

So my FH is A LOT neater than me... almost to the point where it's ocd... and it bothers me that he can't leave the bed unmade sometimes and i'm sure that it bothers him that i can let it go

not to say i'm a mess! just saying that we balance each other... because sometimes he's a little too detail oriented hahaha

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Posted by MrsTarricone2B

FH is a movie fanatic and I haven't seen many movies so one night a week he picks a movie he loves for me to watch. The thing that drives me crazy is he will say the lines the actors are saying like 5 seconds before they say it!! He doesn't do it for the whole movie - just the really good lines!

And it drives him crazy that I keep the whole house clean but my room is a complete mess!!

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Hahaha. My FH is a movie fanatic as well. My biggest pet peeve of his is that he talks about movies 24/7, quotes them... the whole nine. I usually just daydream while he's talking about movies.

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Posted by FutureJOC

What is one thing FH does that gets on your nerves?
His pure laziness. I'll ask him to like change a lightbulb or clean the dishes in the sink or clean 'his room' (we have a 2 bedroom apt. and the smaller bedroom is his 'man cave' which is always a pig sty) and when I get home all I see him doing is playing video games and nothing of what I asked him to do is done. I seriously don't understand why you can't take a totaly of 20 minutes out of your day to do something that will help me out so I won't have to do it after a long day at work, going to the gym, and then coming home to have to cook dinner. Especially lately, we are going to have some of his family members staying in our apt. who are coming in for the wedding next week and I want the apt. in prestine condition before they arrive. I asked FH last night to do a couple of things before I got home and lo and behold he was playing video games and nothing was done. I simply said (in a higher voice than usual and with THAT tone) 'You know all I am trying to do is get this place clean for YOUR relatives, but that's just fine, you sit there and do absolutely nothing to help while I get this place in order all by myself' and that got his a$$ up quick to help. But, it's all partially my fault because I am an enabler and he knows that if he doesn't do it I am going to do it cuz that's just the person that I am(really need to get out of this habit).

What is something you do that drives him crazy?
He drives me crazy enough that no matter what I do that drives him crazy I don't care... he can deal with it LOL

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man cave huh? awesome

ok... this might sound silly... BUT I cant deal with when I say somethin... and he says 'What?' (like he didnt hear) and then b4 i repeat myself he responds W F T ... he heard... WHY say WHAT??

As for me driving him crazy.... I leave my empty water bottles ALL OVER our apt!

OOPS!

FH- Leaves his clothes where ever

Me: Watch Latin Soap operas every night.