Weight Comments

OMG!! So as I'm reading this I'm imagining a girl with a BMI of >32, which still, nobody should Ever makes such comments towards. But u weigh the same as me! And I think its an avg wt.

I'm so sorry! That's sooooo rude! I think u r perfect! U know why? Because ur happy with urself, and that's ALL THAT MATTERS! I bet the rail thin girl vomits lol

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Posted by Ncarlo

anddd if you try to eat healthy and be conscious- they think your being an anorexic bride!! making comments that your not eating.... seriously ppl have something to say either way!

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You're right. My MOH is also my sparring partner in karate and she is a jr size, sometimes she doesn't make size 0 and she constantly gets bothered that she's anorexic. She's 100% not and she happens to be beautiful!

My other MOH is a size 16. She's been struggling to lose weight and has made great progress. But, you know what, 16 or 6, she's still gorgeous!

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I'm just sick of people thinking that they're entitled to make a comment. Having an opinion is one thing, vocalizing it is another! And thinking that every woman should look exactly the same is just stupid.

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Posted by Its2Snappy

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Posted by Ncarlo

anddd if you try to eat healthy and be conscious- they think your being an anorexic bride!! making comments that your not eating.... seriously ppl have something to say either way!

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You're right. My MOH is also my sparring partner in karate and she is a jr size, sometimes she doesn't make size 0 and she constantly gets bothered that she's anorexic. She's 100% not and she happens to be beautiful!

My other MOH is a size 16. She's been struggling to lose weight and has made great progress. But, you know what, 16 or 6, she's still gorgeous!

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I'm just sick of people thinking that they're entitled to make a comment. Having an opinion is one thing, vocalizing it is another! And thinking that every woman should look exactly the same is just stupid.

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Exactly right!! You couldn't have said it better!! and its always women who have something to say.. and the important thing is if we like the way we look and our FH does that noone else matters

Ughh i hate ppl that make rude comments about weight! My grandmother is like this (she used to say mean things to me all the time when I was overweight and now she does it to my cousins) and its so frustrating- some ppl will just say whatevers on their mind without thinking about how it will affect others.

Just ignore what they say (i know its easier said than done)- if you are happy with the way you look and your weight isn't causing any health problems then you don't need to lose weight.

people suckk. You'll always find those that manage to be rude.

I'm the same size as you btw. I lost like 90 lbs. when I was overweight, people made comments and now that I lost it, they say I'm too thin and I'm def not TOO thin.

you look fab. Screw em.

Ummm I'm a size 6, I weigh what you weigh and people need to SHUT THE F UP.

Don't listen to them. Its spite, and jealousy. YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED!! YOU GET TO WEAR THAT AMAZING DRESS NOT THEM!!!

Don't ever listen to a$$h0les. I wish diarrhea on them. In the worse way.

I'd turn the tables.

Say something like, 'Actually, I'm planning on gaining 20 pounds. I want size double-Ds, and I want them preserved in pictures so my great-grandkids will stare in awe at Granny's rack.'

People don't know how to respond to that.

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Posted by Shallots

I'd turn the tables.

Say something like, 'Actually, I'm planning on gaining 20 pounds. I want size double-Ds, and I want them preserved in pictures so my great-grandkids will stare in awe at Granny's rack.'

People don't know how to respond to that.

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Thanks for the support girlies. I was so po-ed yesterday. But, now I'm over them. Screw it! And I'm so using this line!

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Posted by kerber981

Ignore it. No one is ever happy. I keep getting the opposite comment:

'You're not going to lose any more weight are you?'

I lost a total of 7lbs. I'm not anorexic. Everyone shut up!

lol

I'm sure you look great!

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Yup. If your skinny people say, 'Do you eat? When you turn sideways you disappear!' and say in rude ways, 'wow.. did you lose weight?'

NO! I haven't lost or gained more then 2-3 pounds in the past 7 years.