Weight Comments

Its2Snappy Posted: May 24, 2010 04:22 PM

Weight Comments

It must be in the water today because I'm ready to bust somebody up. I get $hit from two people this weekend! My aunt who is by no means thin saying 'Oh your not going to lose any weight before the wedding?' And this rail thin biatch whose my bm's friend, 'Oh you're not on a diet?' I'm sorry, but I'm a friggin size 6. I'm 130lbs. I don't know of any girl who wouldn't want to lose a few extra pounds. And yes, I do too, but damn I'm certainly not heavy! And I think I look pretty good! *** is with people!

mariedsgn Posted: May 24, 2010 04:24 PM

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MikesBride2B Posted: May 24, 2010 04:26 PM

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Ugh, I so feel you...I hate all those comments, like when I order a cheeseburger and get sideways looks...I happen to like the way my body looks, I like my curves...would I like to be smaller? Sure! But I like how I look now too! Why should I change??? Dayummmmm

Becca2010 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:27 PM

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I'm only 6-7 pounds heavier and I have SUCH issues with my weight and size because of all those nasty comments! what is wrong with everyone??? Hello! If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all!!! And honestly, some people really should only be seen and NOT heard because they're nasty fcuks!!!

I'm SURE you look great. If I could drop these last few pounds, I'd feel so much better about myself But then again, it's the comments that bring me down, so maybe if those stopped I wouldn't feel the need to drop those pounds.

Jna2010 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:27 PM

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hatersssss, people should seriously focus on themselves

MrsC2010 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:28 PM

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yeah comments about weight before the wedding made me sooo angry. its like why do people feel its acceptable to comment on your weight just bc its your wedding? ugh

jme78 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:29 PM

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I don't understand people sometimes.

RitasEngaged Posted: May 24, 2010 04:32 PM

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#1 - i thought you do this to you aunt lol

#2 - my skinny minny sisters said the same thing to me - they couldnt believe i didnt want to lose weight

jhines4684 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:33 PM

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yea i'm getting comments left and right, i'm 170 trying to get to 145 before november. i can't lose that much anyoway, number 1, my FIANCE likes the way i look and that's all that matters, and number 2, already ordered my dress, so 25lbs won't kill me....less $$$ to spend in alterations.

as long as your fiance doesn't harass you about it, that should make you feel better.

CarolAnn721 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:36 PM

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I just posted on another thread. My entire bridal party is thinner than me. I had asked them all, when i got engaged to gain 40 lbs before the wedding so I don't have to lose. My 1 sister gained 2 lbs and is 'up' to 117lbs. That's it. Everyone else is losing what little they have and I give them crap every day about it instead of anyone telling me to diet, I yell at them to gain weight.

AngnShaun Posted: May 24, 2010 04:37 PM

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i dont get how rude people are

kerber981 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:39 PM

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Ignore it. No one is ever happy. I keep getting the opposite comment:

'You're not going to lose any more weight are you?'

I lost a total of 7lbs. I'm not anorexic. Everyone shut up!

lol

I'm sure you look great!

SoontobeGallagher Posted: May 24, 2010 04:40 PM

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People ****. My Uncle pinched my stomach and was like 'I see your gaining a few.' I nearly burst out into tears!!!! I almost told my mom he wasn't invited to the wedding anymore. lol

whispersamethyst Posted: May 24, 2010 04:41 PM

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Some people are just plain ol' idiots

MrsSx2 Posted: May 24, 2010 04:42 PM

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Whoa!!!! I cannot believe the nerve of some people!!!! You're a great weight, and even if you wanted to diet, its NO ONES place to tell you that you should be or criticize you for not being on one! hmmph!!!

Its2Snappy Posted: May 24, 2010 04:42 PM

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Posted by RitasEngaged

#1 - i thought you do this to you aunt lol

#2 - my skinny minny sisters said the same thing to me - they couldnt believe i didnt want to lose weight

Rita, I usually do with my aunt, but she is literally on my last nerves. If she survives until next week it will be a friggin miracle!

My lovely ladies, I swear I just seriously want to beat some people. When did it become a crime to dare I say LIKE the way you look? Why do I suddenly have to buy into fad diets and crazy trends? I've been an athlete all my life. I've trained in martial arts for 6 years. If I'm not a skinny minny now, it means I'm never meant to be. I say **** it! Love yourself no matter your size and be proud!

mnp Posted: May 24, 2010 04:47 PM

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Ohh I totally understand what you are going through.
You just have to ignore people.

I am small (size 0) and short but over the last year I gained weight.(still the same size though) and everybody can't seem to stop commenting on the weight/size.

Really people just SHUT UP already

Always, don't let them get to you