Weird situation...
So... FH had this roommate/close friend in college who he didn't talk to much after college, because they lost contact.
Suddenly out of the blue, last Winter '10-'11, he gets a TEXT from the guy, saying he's getting married and wants FH as a groomsman. FH says, 'Sure!' without knowing any of the details about the wedding after having not spoken for a few years.
Turns out, it was a semi-destination wedding (Vermont) the DAY BEFORE FH's cousin's wedding in September 2011. Since FH was in the Vermont Wedding, we drove up there the night before for the rehearsal dinner, stayed in a hotel, went to the wedding and then DROVE HOME after the wedding to make it to the cousin's wedding on LI the next day.
They were nice people and it was fun, but such a weird situation.
To make things weirder, we haven't spoken to them since the wedding and we never received a Thank You Card. I think that is SO crappy. I mean, we made arrangements to be there and gave them a really generous gift and nothing... never heard from them again.
FH wants to invite them to our wedding and I'm kind of against it. I mean, we're tight on the guest list and I keep asking him if he honestly thinks we're ever going to speak to them again after our wedding. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if they declined our invite, because they're from Upstate NY.
What can we do in this situation?
Suddenly out of the blue, last Winter '10-'11, he gets a TEXT from the guy, saying he's getting married and wants FH as a groomsman. FH says, 'Sure!' without knowing any of the details about the wedding after having not spoken for a few years.
Turns out, it was a semi-destination wedding (Vermont) the DAY BEFORE FH's cousin's wedding in September 2011. Since FH was in the Vermont Wedding, we drove up there the night before for the rehearsal dinner, stayed in a hotel, went to the wedding and then DROVE HOME after the wedding to make it to the cousin's wedding on LI the next day.
They were nice people and it was fun, but such a weird situation.
To make things weirder, we haven't spoken to them since the wedding and we never received a Thank You Card. I think that is SO crappy. I mean, we made arrangements to be there and gave them a really generous gift and nothing... never heard from them again.
FH wants to invite them to our wedding and I'm kind of against it. I mean, we're tight on the guest list and I keep asking him if he honestly thinks we're ever going to speak to them again after our wedding. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if they declined our invite, because they're from Upstate NY.
What can we do in this situation?
