my invites went out..... and people at work got them....i think they are 'discussing it' you know....oh i got invited to Lisa's wedding were you....and others who I didnt invite are upset ...
or else im going nuts....
i mean i talk to everyone....but i cant invite everyone HELLO...
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my invites went out..... and people at work got them....i think they are 'discussing it' you know....oh i got invited to Lisa's wedding were you....and others who I didnt invite are upset ...
or else im going nuts....
i mean i talk to everyone....but i cant invite everyone HELLO...
yea that happened to me too its a little frustrating
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thats a hard situation to deal with....i HATEEEE when i feel like people are talking about me behind my back...nothing makes me more mad. They'll get over it!
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Hey I work with alot of people , we are inviting I beleive 10 couples from work...thats sick already..Fh and I are very sociable at work, we have outside relationships with co-workers...
just because you know me ur not invited.. i still feel bad though.
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i dont understand why some people are like that....they have to think 'well if i was having a wedding, would i have invited her?' And thats a problem solved. I'm sure the relationships are mutual so I'm sure you made the right decisions.
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AARRGGGGHHHHHHHH! That is so ackward. I know the same thing is going to happen to me! Sorry u have to deal w/ this.
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i hear ya i am afraid of this too ... more at my second job then my first i would love to invite everyone but i just cant ... i am seriuosly considering going up to the popel i am inviting and asking them not to say anything to anyone cause i couldnt invite everyone!
AS
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Yeah its tough. YOu dont want people to complain and then again you want everyone to be happy. OHHH WELLL!!! what could you do. I dont think I will be inviting anyone from my job
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that stinks!!! just act oblivious
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i actually have to express shock at my guys here - they were VERY good about it. They didn't really talk about it to anyone not invited. but the way i did it - if i have a 'REAL' relationship with the person - i invited them. If i am courteous to them at work - they weren't coming.
I invited the people basically who if i am out due to being sick will either IM me, call me or come visit me my first day back to see how i'm doing...
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Yeah its tough. YOu dont want people to complain and then again you want everyone to be happy. OHHH WELLL!!! what could you do. I dont think I will be inviting anyone from my job
I don't think I am either.....and although I've gotten really friendly with some of them really quickly, I don't see anyone outside of work AND I only started here in September so if anyone gets pissy, that's my reasoning- my guest list was already made before I started here.
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that stinks!!! just act oblivious
What wedding? I'm not getting married. lol
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I know, this is weird. FH & I work together... so it's going to be odd too... We sent out STD to a few of our CLOSE friends... but there are others we are going to invite and other we are NOT going to invite. I was kidding and said we should hand them out like how they hand out the invites on 'My Super Suite 16' on MTV!!!
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this is a problem i have .. my company is about 40-50 people and eveyone is very close
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my invites went out..... and people at work got them....i think they are 'discussing it' you know....oh i got invited to Lisa's wedding were you....and others who I didnt invite are upset ...
or else im going nuts....
i mean i talk to everyone....but i cant invite everyone HELLO...
uugghhh I just KNOW Im goin to go through this too at work. Not looking forward to it.
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I know, this is weird. FH & I work together... so it's going to be odd too... We sent out STD to a few of our CLOSE friends... but there are others we are going to invite and other we are NOT going to invite. I was kidding and said we should hand them out like how they hand out the invites on 'My Super Suite 16' on MTV!!!
we used to work in the same office., now he is in a different office., but still same company.
we have to invite people i work with, people he used to work with (b/c i see them everyday) and people he now works with ugh
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that happened to me - its so weird i went by the rule if we have hung out poutside of work more than once then iinvited them. really on;y one person was visbliy mad at me - and they still won't talk to me - i think it's pretty funny
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im totally fearing this ... ugh
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Posted by jnkcrunk
that stinks!!! just act oblivious
What wedding? I'm not getting married. lol
too funny!
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Posted by minibride08
I know, this is weird. FH & I work together... so it's going to be odd too... We sent out STD to a few of our CLOSE friends... but there are others we are going to invite and other we are NOT going to invite. I was kidding and said we should hand them out like how they hand out the invites on 'My Super Suite 16' on MTV!!!
we used to work in the same office., now he is in a different office., but still same company.
we have to invite people i work with, people he used to work with (b/c i see them everyday) and people he now works with ugh
